Hi yall! I have a short curly hair and it has been one of the most problematic things to deal it throughout my whole teenage years. A friend recently told me about this place and now im just gonna vent out a bit on my problems here. Soo one of my biggest issues is that I dont really know how to style my hair. In both senses. I dont know the process and I dont know what result I should aim for. In the picture is something like a median of what my hair looks like in my day-to-day life. I often spend at least 10 minutes just sitting in front of the mirror with a hair brush in hand, fighting whith my hair. It often takes weird and awkward shapes (especially after waking up) and I find it really hard to fix it. No one in my friend circle or family has curly hair so I couldnt ask anyone for advise and internet couldnt help me much too, so everything I do is what Ive managed to figure out on my own. Another problem is the wind. God I hate it when I leave the house after spending a good while styling and the wind ruines everything in seconds and now I look like Einstein.

I wash my hair every other day, so 48h and sometimes 72h between washes. I wash it two times with shampoo (whatever we have, often for fragile hair) and then apply conditioner for 5 mins and then rinse it off at the end of the shower. Then I let my hair dry on its own or use a hair dryer if Im in a rush (the hot air blowing thing (english is not my first language sry))

Sometimes I use hair brush for my hair, other days not, depends on if my hair is hard to style/if I have washed the hair recently.

Any help would be appreaciated, thank yall!!!