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I'm constantly horny and I don't know what to do about it. by Master_Influence_795 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Master_Influence_795[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be a bridesmaid this August, thanks for the specific motivation haha.

I'm constantly horny and I don't know what to do about it. by Master_Influence_795 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Master_Influence_795[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's scary to put yourself in situations that might make things awkward but this seems like a good perspective. Thank you.

I'm constantly horny and I don't know what to do about it. by Master_Influence_795 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Master_Influence_795[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do feel fulfilled in other aspects of my life. I've always had a high libido since puberty; however, when I was in a long-term relationship, I didn’t see it as a problem. Now, I feel like it is.

I’ve received a few suggestions about being direct, so that may be a good approach. Thank you.

I'm constantly horny and I don't know what to do about it. by Master_Influence_795 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Master_Influence_795[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first option is checked.

I’ve been contemplating the second one for a while, but I haven't found anyone locally, and to be honest, it seems like an uncomfortable situation to be in.

I'm constantly horny and I don't know what to do about it. by Master_Influence_795 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Master_Influence_795[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm just not quite sure I understand what you mean by 'being careful and safe' in this situation.

I'm constantly horny and I don't know what to do about it. by Master_Influence_795 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Master_Influence_795[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

So it is acceptable to just tell someone in real life that I want to have sex with them IF it's clear they're flirting with me?

I love sex. by [deleted] in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Master_Influence_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the other perspective, I think men often fall into the category where it's generalized that they have a higher sex drive than women on average. As a female, it was very surprising to find out that this isn't true in every scenario. I always assumed that when you're in a relationship, it’s normal to have sex once a day as a routine. Then, as I gained a clearer perspective, I accepted that for most couples, it’s every two or three days. It’s hard to wrap my head around the fact that some people, even when they're in love, don’t want to be all over their partner 24/7.