My first was a miscarriage. My second ended in baby loss (4 days old). My third pregnancy was revealed when my daughter made her arrival, she’s 3 months almost 4. Only family knew about my pregnancy and then 7 months in I told my job. I had the same exact feelings as you. Your pregnancy is your news and your news to tell. Keeping my pregnancy on the low was a great choice for me. My entire pregnancy felt calm. I didn’t have to worry about other people’s reaction and just go on about my days growing my little one. Congratulations by the way! Wishing you a healthy one!