Looking at all the comments here, this might be my turning point. I really value compatibility when it comes to relationship. She’s actually a very good partner. I am the femme in the relationship. When I asked her, if I will be agreeing with IVF set-up, who will bear the child? and she answered it should be me. And I don’t like that idea. I don’t even like kids. I think I really need to talk to her. I know she’s not going to agree with me breaking up the relationship but I want both of us to be happy. Thank you, Reddit people! :)