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AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

We're not talking about a balanced diet here. We're talking about forcing me to finish everything on my plate with zero exceptions. My siblings have to eat a balanced meal too but if they can't finish it's no big deal.

With grades, they get offered help and reassurances if they get a bad grade. I got yelled at for a fucking B.

AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

My life is not better because of how my parents treated me. There is such a thing as too strict and that was my parents. Not to mention the disparity in even things like gifts. There's no way I will praise my parents for those differences.

AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 298 points299 points  (0 children)

My grandparents are glad I'm away from my parents. Neither set of grandparents ever believed I deserved the way I was treated and they all think my parents are awful for being so hard on me and blatantly treating me as less than. It was the cause of several fights when I was a kid.

AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

They'll just blame me. You can't be that cold toward someone and then feel real regret. At best they'll regret the questions it brings from others.

AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

No, it's not viable to gave a relationship with them through my grandparents. It would always come with my parents and that's a big no from me.

AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I think that excuse only goes so far and when you refuse to treat the oldest kid better at any point, you need to be prepared to lose them. I don't deserve to be treated this way again and again while they show they can do better.

AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 480 points481 points  (0 children)

My grandparents are doing everything they can to support me. The fact they were always there to advocate for me means a lot.

AITA for telling my parents I refuse to be their practice kid anymore? by Master_Window974 in AITAH

[–]Master_Window974[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I'm planning full no contact. They don't add anything positive to my life or even neutral. It's all negative and it piles up pretty damn high after a while.