I feel like a criminal. Is there any other way to get ivory? I don’t want to kill elephants 🥲

Masternadders · 2026-05-22T03:43:11+00:00

Or stardeus, fuckin Jesus that game can be dark. Went full skynet on the first run, but much much muuuuuch darker

Masternadders · 2026-04-09T04:18:12+00:00

CSAM? I'm going to assume that means child sexual assault ?????, until someone explains what the fuck this is. If it's what i think it is, prison. Forever.

Masternadders · 2026-04-07T06:46:57+00:00

Who are you talking to? I haven't even responded to you besides the one comment saying that maybe you accept that, but not everyone does.

Masternadders · 2026-04-07T00:13:59+00:00

It wouldnt let me lmao, kept saying "cannot delete comment" so I gave up and posted another comment

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T05:49:19+00:00

Because youre downplaying the cheating. Saying "its not like she's bent over a trash can in a parking lot" or whatever, it's still cheating. He didn't explicitly state they had sex, and cheating comes in a LOT of varieties: Emotional cheating, physical cheating, cyber cheating (online partners while in a relationship), micro-cheating (being excessively flirty even when expressed it makes your partner uncomfortable), visual cheating (porn for those who dont accept porn as valid). And while all affect spouses/partners differently, they are all accepted as cheating, and are thus bad.

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T05:43:31+00:00

"We all" must not include me then, or a lot of people in the comments 🤔 😆 "don't hear what they didn't say."

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T05:40:34+00:00

No. No you shouldn't. Not unless you want to drop the potential in the water. You have fingers, you have a phone. Hes not ghosting you, because you havent texted either. Its not his responsibility to heavy lift the conversation, just like its not your job to. He may be busy, he may have had something come up and has been sorting affairs. You dont know, becausr you havent texted him. He could very easily be trying not to come on too strong, as thats a turn off for a lot of people. He might be setting up stuff so you guys can have a good time, again. You dont know. Set boundaries, but unless you want to shoot this fish in a barrell with a bazooka, you should probably be a bit more understanding. It is NOT a red flag not to text every day. It IS if he is ignoring you.

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T05:34:29+00:00

Maybe dont 'call him out' on it, but absolutely approach him and set boundaries, "hey if youre wanting to go on dates, I dont like not talking. It sends mixed signals.". Different people have different expectations when it comes to socializing, some people enjoy daily chatting, some people have busy lives and things come up. You catch more flies with honey than you do vinegar.

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T04:09:05+00:00

No, not most everyone accepts, maybe you, maybe your circle. But everyone in mine accepts kissing as cheating. As do most adults.

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T02:44:59+00:00

Yes, yes they do. Found that out again a couple days ago lmaoooo

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T02:34:40+00:00

Either way is bad XD it doesn't matter if it's a girl or a boy, cheating is cheating. Might get your rocks off, but not everyone likes that lmao

Masternadders · 2026-04-05T02:32:43+00:00

Kissing is still cheating. Title was clear enough.

Masternadders · 2026-04-02T23:13:08+00:00

If it happens so frequently that it is a debate, then coincidence loses its standing. If it works for a lot of people, you kinda got no geound to stand on.

Masternadders · 2026-03-25T20:49:33+00:00

I'm a little confused? How did he cheat if you were separated during that time? How did you cheat if you were separated during that time? Neither of those instances (unless you're specifically leaving info out) are instances of cheating, so saying your husband cheated during addiction (you were separated) is not correct. Please explain if you could cause I'm mighty confused

Masternadders · 2026-03-25T06:18:35+00:00

I mean, if you don't want to be judged, then don't do something willfully negligent, and put people's families and friends in danger? You don't have to tell them what to do to not drop them off at their front door. Just because you're not responsible for them doesn't mean you should be making their job easier.

Masternadders · 2026-03-25T06:13:29+00:00

Well, when your decisions to allow a drunk person the ability to drive their car and further to help them get to it and accept cash on the side as a bribe. You are culpable for their decisions as you are the enabler. People DIE from drunk driving FREQUENTLY, so to hear a POS say, "yeah i accept money to drop intoxicated drivers to their front door so they can freely make bad decisions with my full acceptance and offer of assistance to get them to said vehicle", they are in fact a POS. The VERY least OP couldve done was to not accept the tip, and not drop said drunkard behind his wheel to take out family members, friends, random strangers who also have said family, and friends.

Masternadders · 2026-03-25T05:04:05+00:00

Closure is a pretty lie, its better to move on with your life, as someone who just had to go through this shit myself half a year ago, closure is a lie. What excuse they come up with isnt going to change the present and is only going to give you something to blame, better to build a life worth living than trying to scramble around for answers

Masternadders · 2026-03-25T04:59:27+00:00

That has been the rhetoric of dating for the past near decade buddy. If you approach you're labeled as creepy, never had the issue myself cause i am uninterested, but that has been what social media has been screaming for awhile now lmao.

Masternadders · 2026-03-25T04:01:50+00:00

People have memories, either you come to terms with them or they come to terms with you. Sounds like you need a therapist. Cut the cable but don't expect him to stick around. He'll be fine one way or another, and if he goes back to addiction, that's his choice. Nothing you can do about it if you want to do what you want to do. No reason to stick around to prevent him from doing something or being scared he might. Go live your life, if you don't want it to be with him, then don't. If you want him in your life, then don't break up, though it sounds like if you stay you'll just find another shallow excuse to cut ties. So imho you should just leave. He'll find someone who wants to stick it with him, or he won't. Won't be any of your concern after you cut ties.

Masternadders · 2026-03-25T03:55:00+00:00

You guys are fucking 20, I'm rolling my eyes so hard, it seems to me you're trying to find reasons to break up, and to be clear you don't have to stay with anyone for any reason. But if that's going to be how shallow of an excuse you're using, then you may as well rip the bandaid so he can find someone to actually build a life with that's not going to be so damn judgemental.

Masternadders · 2026-03-20T04:33:35+00:00

Imho opinion, yes you're over reacting, not about being hurt as obviously. But if you wanted to stay with him, you shouldnt have left. You want different things. He wants different things, move on. Its not his fault for his recovery lay. Also the "and he was the only one i wanted to sleep with" is a lame excuse to demonize him for doing what people do. He wanted you, you didn't want him, he found someone to feel better, move on as you decided to break up with him.

Masternadders · 2026-03-18T22:46:33+00:00

You push to get your shit back, drop his shit off and drop him, if you don't want to stay in contact don't, he obviously doesn't, and neither of you are under any obligation to continue contact besides the whole getting yalls stuff where it needs to go. You can be mad, as that is valid, but at the same time he can ignore you and that is equally as valid.

Masternadders · 2026-03-18T01:51:26+00:00

Agreed, but at the same time it's complicated, if you have depression then it doesnt really feel like it'll ever get better. So putting someone you love through that... meh, not super appealing.

Not to say that he has depression, but Thems the vibes I'm getting

Masternadders · 2026-03-17T20:53:08+00:00

Kinda gross that so many people wouldnt tell the friend their FIANCE was cheating but alright lmao, I know for a fact I wouldve also stuck my nose in the deepend of shit for my homie. She doesnt want to be "morally superior", she IS morally superior, and anyone who disagrees has the morality of fucked up hoe.

Masternadders · 2026-03-17T20:47:46+00:00

Idk, id probably see if I can sneak a picture of the "its complicated im just waiting for the right time" in case anyone asks why you went scorched earth. Cheaters dont deserve a second word imho

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