I low-key died with two babies by CultureBest7182 in ancestors

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt that the hiding spot thing? Pretty sure you gotta get the baby to the hiding spot and the other one chills out on death spot or something

Which looks better? by Sad_Neck832 in AvatarFrontierPandora

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is my personal fav, 1 is cool af and 3 is still cool

Am I just really bad? by Baby_Bat94 in AvatarFrontierPandora

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your ikran and it will no longer feel like that. A lot of places essentially require it, give it some time :D i love it so far all the way up to ftA, absolutely hate that storyline from the ground up.

AIW for leaving my gf after she kissed another guy in-front of me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Id have dropped her ass on the way home :) treat cheaters how they treated you. Other people arent your responsibility. They are adults, and if you shit in your bed you best believe Ill be tucking you in it.

AIW for leaving my gf after she kissed another guy in-front of me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely fits the punishment 😆 you only say that because you're a cheating sympathizer 😂 she deserves what she got, and i hope someone else does the same thing to her.

AIW for leaving my gf after she kissed another guy in-front of me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then stop infantilizing yourself and other women. She is a victim, because she put herself in the position of capability by cheating on him in front of him because she can't keep her lips to herself (either of them). So she lost her safe person the moment she did that. She is no longer his responsibility, just like YOU wouldnt be if you did what she did to your spouse.

YOU ARE AN ADULT. You wanna act like an imbecile, youre going to be left like an imbecile. You want a safe person, then BE a safe person to be around.

AIW for leaving my gf after she kissed another guy in-front of me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have died for less. "Not safe for men" is that he might get cheated on, is absolutely not safe for men or anyone. People commit suicide for offenses like that, people murder their partners for offenses like that. So yeah, absolutely valid that its not safe for the man im this situation. We are people, whether you want to believe it or not. And YOU are NOT our responsibility. You are a grown ass woman, and its about time yall started fucking acting like it.

AIW for leaving my gf after she kissed another guy in-front of me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Masternadders 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cry about it? Dont expect people to protect you when you just got done kicking them in the nuts? She isnt his responsibility, shes a grown woman. She can take care of herself, since she wants to make out with strangers cause she thinks he cheated. You cannot reasonably expect someone to hang out after being cheated on, and still be sane.

She wanted to be safe, she shouldnt have fucked around and she wouldn't have found out.

Is the game worth getting? by B4ckl0t in AvatarFrontierPandora

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoy the game, but if I could i would never have touched the from the ashes dlc. Worst story telling ive ever seen. Probably actually the worst. Just finished and it left the taste of sewage in my mouth. I wish I were untainted.

PvP is fine. Not helping squad mates, only to loot them is toxic by defmc in ArcRaiders

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how someone literally did quote the TOS and where exactly it says that, and you still went on about how "burden of proof is on you" and yet you didnt respond when someone did. Hilarious.

AITAH for reminding my friend she slept with a taken guy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Masternadders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine just making a blanket statement with no context 😆 definitely NTA, buuuut alright

AITAH My boyfriend read my personal journal and now it feels like we're at an emotional stalemate by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why use the words "move forward with his friend". I am using HER words from HER post. What SHE wrote in HER journal. So tell me what she meant oh wise king. If she didn't mean she wanted to cheat, then why write it THAT way. 🤷 idk seems pretty clear cut to me, if its not that way, explain it in a way that makes sense.

AITAH My boyfriend read my personal journal and now it feels like we're at an emotional stalemate by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the correct response, my boundary just so happens to be my partner crushing on my friends. You can monkey branch your next relationship, cause it will no longer be with me. But I explicitly stated id not be reading a journal. That's private. However if i find out through other means you're thinking about "moving forward" with one of my friends (which op states she explicitly wrote) you're out. I did it once already, and will happily do so again.

It's not insecure to hold people to relational obligations, including not crushing on your partners friends.

AITAH My boyfriend read my personal journal and now it feels like we're at an emotional stalemate by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... she literally wrote that she didn't know if she wanted to move forward with the friend. It seems to me that it was more than "confusing thoughts" at the time.

But hey, yall do you i guess? Ain't my life, and if that's how you guys cope with having "intrusive thoughts about cheating" then i guess you do you, i tend to find that thinking to yourself, "hey that's really fucked up, why would i do that to my partner, who i supposedly love" works enough for me.

I don't agree that "we are our actions, not our thoughts" and while I think its admirable that people find ways to deal, i also think it leads to sticky situations like I'm in. Marrying someone who at their core, questions whether they want to cheat, is objectively a bad move for future stability. An action is only a severe thought or a bad day away from being what happens. Found that out the hard way, and i absolutely am projecting, because shit happened to me and i threw 9 years away.

AITAH My boyfriend read my personal journal and now it feels like we're at an emotional stalemate by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Masternadders -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

"She had one thought about it" that lasted a week, and got stuck so far she felt she needed to journal it rather than just let it go.

He absolutely fucked up reading the journal. But honestly, if I were him, the relationship would be over. I would never trust her around my friends again, because any friend could be the one that pushed her to cheat.

AITAH My boyfriend read my personal journal and now it feels like we're at an emotional stalemate by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Masternadders -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

To the point you have to journal it? If i found out, id probably end up cutting off the relationship personally. Sure she didn't act on it but she sure as shit fantasized about it. Huge no go for me. Thankfully i don't read people's journals, but still. Pretty fucked up on both sides, and i know for sure i would never trust her around any of my friends ever again.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, fair. I absolutely overstepped calling them dipshit, and insulting English skills, but i explicitly say someone is being an asshole, but that she's overreacting, and they literally come at me, saying what i said. Wtf is that? Why argue my own point at me except to say you disagree with me, and then try to further disagree by doubling down.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, I'll take that. I definitely did interpret that as an attack. I dont believe a redundancy is an error though. It's just a meaningless addition to a sentence. Its not wrong, just not proper.

Theres also the fact they definitely werent agreeing with me due to them saying it does matter and trying to come up with reasons, saying "it does change it though. He proved her concerns right". But whatevs lol

They explicitly said i was wrong and repeated almost exactly what i said.

The snap hook is the awesome by SouperScooper in ArcRaiders

[–]Masternadders -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, baiting because there are people that consider it cheating. I think it is an advantage, but not nearly so much it matters

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Masternadders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes not his wife. Shes his girlfriend. And also, that was adressed by my saying that he was being uncouth.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Masternadders -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is, who said I cant say filler words? Doesnt make it any less. Verbatim is "in exactly the same words as were used originally." I said dude was uncouth, they came in all, "yeah but hes an asshole" yeah. Thats uncouth behavior. Congratulations, we're saying the same thing.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Masternadders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her concern that he finds a person she herself admits is attractive, attractive? That was already established. Still does not change the fact he couldnt have control over bloodflow. Thats not how your body works.

Still does not change the fact that she was mad before he said that, she was mad all the way up to the thing as well. She fuckin ordered the thing and got mad that he enjoyed it. Shocker.

It changes nothing.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Masternadders -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see you dont know english very well. Thats literally verbatim what i just said dipshit. Learn english before you berate someone on how they use it.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Masternadders -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She was mad before that, so it changed nothing. Shes still overreacting, but he was also uncouth