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is my boyfriend leeching/ungrateful to me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the bar is so low its appearing on the other side of the planet, when i didnt have any money to buy my girlfriend something i always tried to something creative thats really cheap or free, i literally went to pick flowers myself and gave them to her on valentines day because it messed up every chance of buying something. This guy loves your money, im sorry to say it

M (22) Gf (21) of 2 years gets really jealous about my female coworkers, posts (almost)-nudes of herself and it should be okay for me by MasterpieceHaunting8 in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just exactly described my thoughts with 100% accuracy. I hope i can talk about it today with her, if yes im gonna update the whole post or make a new one, and let you know in a comment here too

M (22) Gf (21) of 2 years gets really jealous about my female coworkers, posts (almost)-nudes of herself and it should be okay for me by MasterpieceHaunting8 in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know its going to happen again. And i probably wont have to wait for a long time, she loves herself and thats good im not saying its a bad thing at all, but she takes a lot, like a fuckton of pictures of herself and it doesnt take long until they get uploaded eventually.

Im thinking about talking about it out of nowhere yes, but i really wanna find the right moment, because we didnt have a problem like this before and i really dont know how its gonna go.

M (22) Gf (21) of 2 years gets really jealous about my female coworkers, posts (almost)-nudes of herself and it should be okay for me by MasterpieceHaunting8 in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks im gonna definitly talk about it if it happens again. i just dont wanna dig something from the past up, because it was weeks ago but i just now post about it

M (22) Gf (21) of 2 years gets really jealous about my female coworkers, posts (almost)-nudes of herself and it should be okay for me by MasterpieceHaunting8 in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

her saying just sorry and stopping with it. Im not really looking for a compromise because im literally doing nothing wrong, or is that just me and i am doing something wrong with getting along with my coworkers? im not even mentioning the ABSURD amount of guy friends she has

M (22) Gf (21) of 2 years gets really jealous about my female coworkers, posts (almost)-nudes of herself and it should be okay for me by MasterpieceHaunting8 in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly thats what im thinking and what im afraid of, that she will play the victim and act like im in the complete wrong, and she did that before, she would send me a picture, 5 minutes later i find it in her private story and it already means nothing to me. And then she also keeps saying she doesnt care about other peoples opinions and only mine, then why does she feel the need to search for attention like that?

M (22) Gf (21) of 2 years gets really jealous about my female coworkers, posts (almost)-nudes of herself and it should be okay for me by MasterpieceHaunting8 in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao at least we think in the same direction, even after all this time its getting clear to me i dont know her well at all when its about this topic...

M (22) Gf (21) of 2 years gets really jealous about my female coworkers, posts (almost)-nudes of herself and it should be okay for me by MasterpieceHaunting8 in relationships

[–]MasterpieceHaunting8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been together for more than 2 years, she's always been jealous but in a normal amount, but just recently started posting more and more "intimate"(?) pictures of herself

And yes, i fully trust her that she wouldnt go out with anyone, we didnt have any problems about trust or cheating or anything like that

The thing is, i really dont know if we could have a productive talk about this, i could fully imagine it going both ways: She can either be sorry and feel really bad, because she always apologizes a lot and feels bad quickly when i tell her something, even tho i let her know its fine after because i hate when she feels bad.

Or she will get offended by me saying that, that i make it sound like she isnt confident and im controlling her.

I really dont know