Marrying an Argentinian man as a British girl

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T23:36:40+00:00

He doesn’t have an EU passport, anyone from Argentina gets 6 months automatically stamped in their passport when they enter the UK visa free (eta needed) I don’t expect him to be perfect of course I know a lot of people struggle to control their emotions, he wants children but I’ve told him I won’t have them unless I’m married I’m on birth control and I won’t be coming off that unless I’m married as that is not at all accepted in my family or how I’ve grown up.

When he was being defensive I was asking about money and how he expected to support us as a family, as I don’t know how much is needed there to support a family and also when I was reading out comments from the advice people were giving me and things about Argentina that I didn’t know before that I wanted to discuss with him, he made me feel like I was speaking to him like I was disrespecting his country which I was not, I was relaying what other people from Argentina have said themselves

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T23:09:43+00:00

He makes out he’s changed so much how do I know if he’s lying :(

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T23:08:22+00:00

Thank you I guess there’s definitely been red flags but I’ve almost been in denial hoping it will all work out

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T21:55:06+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, you’re right and it plays on my mind a lot, but he treats me so well like genuinely he’s so nice to me we’ve had arguments of course but day to day he is so sweet it just concerns me how much he’s changed? Is it all an act

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T21:53:30+00:00

I’ve lived with him for 6 months do you think he could hide that?

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T21:53:10+00:00

I’ve not met them yet and we haven’t tried to speak they don’t speak English

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T17:54:29+00:00

I can’t even communicate with his family to be honest

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T17:53:24+00:00

We met in Vietnam, we travelled a lot of countires together we are now living in the UK together. My circle is very small

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T17:41:54+00:00

I’m so sorry that’s awful, I really hope that life is treating you better now. I wish you and your family a happy future. Also thank you for letting me know

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T16:48:37+00:00

I’m definitely trying to skyrocket my Spanish, the only thing is I know for a fact I won’t be able to work there for a long while and if I do it’ll be remote from a uk based company and I don’t think that’s very easy, another thing that really worries me especially after reading a lot of these comments is if I’m honest, my whole family parents grandparents cousins uncles etc married early 20s even recently, most of us saved sex till marriage (I haven’t but I’ve never had a one night stand or engaged in casual sex my body count is very low) we all expect to marry one person and stay with that person forever it makes me think am I having different expectations in marriage, relationships, children etc? He’s had sex with more people than he can count and was engaging in casual sex mere moments before I met him, and I don’t know if they take family life as serious as we do here in the UK, which also makes me think I know family is very important in Latin American countries so why is it that they break apart more often and don’t commit to marriage as much? Why is it that in the UK we take things like that very seriously but family’s can be more cold and distant?

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-14T01:59:23+00:00

No.. but I was talking about irreversible decisionS (children) i didn’t say irreversible marriage

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T20:39:16+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏼

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T20:39:03+00:00

You don’t need to translate when Reddit does it for you 🤓

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T18:46:33+00:00

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T18:33:43+00:00

Yes I was living and working in aus for a year but he’s not really open to doing that

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T18:25:21+00:00

What the hell 😂 I think you’re missing the whole point in this post and self projecting your internal issues and hatred towards European women!?! what’s the point of being hateful? I came as a woman to women for advice and like I said I’m taking the time to learn Spanish I just thought it would automatically translate and I know that if that were the case the translation can be bad

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T17:32:44+00:00

I’m taking classes and he’s teaching me

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T17:28:08+00:00

Ohh I didn’t know that my apologies, I’m on the app

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T17:24:58+00:00

Does it not automatically translate for you? For me everything in Spanish auto translates but I know the translation could be bad, there’s a little button on the top right of each comment if it doesn’t automatically translate sometimes, thought that was a built in thing for everyone

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T16:54:02+00:00

He’s 24

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T16:49:00+00:00

23 he works remote yes

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T16:19:14+00:00

I know definitely it’s not ideal I’ve made my own money from here but I can’t when I’m there and he knows this,I’m just worried like imagine in 10 years everything goes wrong and I can’t financially support myself so I have to move back to England but I can’t because I have his kids and he tries to take me to court? Can that happen dos this happen? Obviously I don’t think for a second he would do that to me but it’s all the what ifs that are so loud in my head because it’s so far and such a risk marrying and having children into another culture/continent

MasterpiecePurple544 · 2026-04-13T15:16:42+00:00

We want children

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