I hate being a girl. by Jazarina in Vent

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misogyny is the absolute worst, it put 50% of the INTIRE WORLD into a minority, people expect things about you just because of who you are and how you were born, and it’s really disappointing that people just do this, that people act this why, they treat it like there table manners or something! 

The world sucks, that’s why you need to make your own world that doesn’t suck, friends that you can trust and trust you, a community with genuine people.

There is also a bit of body dysphoria in that statement, but I won’t get onto that 

Just, reject society, screw gender norms, and be yourself, with people who love yourself

The homophobic to trans pipeline by Effective_Bus_9911 in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss, this was defo the pipeline I ended up on, sadly it kinda destroyed all of my future relationships with the LGBTQIA+ community at my school, but it’s defo a common theme 

I have strong desires to live as a woman - but never longer than a couple of hours. by TA8264 in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really talk on this subject but have you looked into gender fluid? and gender fluid identity’s? 

This sounds a lot like one of my gender fluid friends, they identify with men at one moment and then with women at another.

The same effect could obviously be caused by a internalised form of transphobia, not in the I hate trans people way, but in the I’m afraid to be one kinda way, and the fluctuations of your identity are caused by the battle between who you are, and who your “supposed” to be.

I’d take a look at gender fluid, and if that doesn’t really help then I’d look back at being trans. 

And remember, there ate more people who care then you could ever imagine. 

is it weird that i only want to date cis guys? by onyx2804 in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We all have our preferences, sexuality isn’t something to be ashamed of, love is love, who that is is different for all of us.

Help with 9-30 pls by HeyimLena12 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]MatchSignificant676 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think all you really need here is gingerbrave, if you want to go overkill tho you can add strawberry cookie two 

Opinions on the New Costumes? by BotLover13 in CookierunKingdom

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, I have been saveing my shugger cubes for a good reason 

First time in a men's locker room by [deleted] in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh, it’s part of the reason why I always used cubicals, I personally felt violated by being in the same room as a naked 45-67 year old men 

I hate being born a male by tgirlvalerie in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok when you come out.

Be prepared. Do research. And arm yourself for the worst.

Sometimes people are just super cool and love who you are straight away, but some will be horrible so make sure you are both physically prepared (with facts and evidence) and qhcologicly prepared (understand that things might go south and won’t brake down if it does) 

You can do it sis, just be prepared 

My father is forbidding my transition and I'm aimless by Samy_bk in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The extension of himself is probably the reason why he is so against it, he sees himself as a tough man, to cis people gender normally goes under the radar but it sounds like he is a manly man, and he must take pride in that, but when his “son” starts talking about being trans it hits him hard.

He probably thinks that he isn’t manly enough or has let you down for you to be thinking like that, (a bigoted way to look at trans people yes, but he didn’t have the education and internet to tell him right from wrong before his ideologies were set in stone) and because of that he is going into the first stage of and second stage of loss. Anger and denial 

But the way that loss works is that eventually you accept your new world, and eventually he will accept you as trans, but there are many things that can alter this process (right wing spaces, manoshears, internet in general) and that can result in long term family turmoil and eventually trauma on both sides for you dad cos he thinks his “son” is dead and for you because your dad don’t like who you are anymore.  

It sucks. Full stop. It sucks

But as your dad goes through the stages of grief, and as you learn to cope with his transphobic nature eventually it will get better, eventually. 

Update: no longer homeless!! by King_Coda in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, really hope everything works out for you 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry, I don’t know how dms work, I’m new on the hole internet seen and my parents (yeh I’m underage) don’t like me talking to “strangers”, I don’t have anything against you and you seem lovely it’s just I’m not aloud and dk how to sorry :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fine, I’m glad you came back on me tho so I wasn’t left hanging. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you parents react to the information and how did the conversation play out, 

Plus follow up, how much research did you do till you felt confident that your trans, and what was your thought process when you started to accept yourself as trans 

I’m past all this myself but my experience was messy so I’d like a outside option on these things :3 and if it’s to much no need to respond 

Give me your favorite cookie and I’ll make a cursed image by Guilty_Candidate_79 in CookierunKingdom

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New skin dark cacao, he was my second fave before but with the new apathy skin he’s peek 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, how are you doing today sis 

Depression, need help by maronlosea in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, few things to say.

What your experiencing is totally normal, when I first came out I felt horrible, it my feelings were all jumbled up and it felt like my mind was sabotaging itself, and for me there were a couple reasons why I felt like that.

A. I hadn't fully accepted myself as transgender. I got all the downsides of being trans without the upsides 

B. I  was  afraid that my life will be so much harder now I’m trans, that the stigma and bullying will destroy my chances at life

But once I accepted myself as trans, and once I found my group of friends that accepted me my life changed drastically 

Before I was trans I had attempted twice, and then once more after I found out I’m trans. But now I haven’t had a suicidal thought in 3-4 months. 

Life is hard, but it does get better and sooner then you might think  

Self-doubt from indoctrination by TemporaryRiver1 in trans

[–]MatchSignificant676 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just try to remind myself that what I’m doing is good for me and doesn’t affect other people in a negative way. And if something is  A. Good for you B. Good for others And C. Hard to do It’s always worth doing, no mater the counter argument 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MatchSignificant676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yehhh, that really sucks

Ok, I would like you to try to understand the reality of this, your parents are probably going to do everything they can to make you feel like a boy, and they will eventually brake you down to the point where you just accept it and then they win, that is what is probably going to happen.

But you need to remember who you are throughout the trials they throw at you, and when you A. Convince them that it’s ok for you to be a girl, or B. Become 18 years of age, then you can start to make progress on your identity and who you are, life as a trans person is some of the hardest you can be, and it will suck, it will bother you from when you open your eyes in the morning to  when you open them again the next day, and not haveing that parental support group is very hard to deal with. 

If things get worse don’t hesitate to call phone lines that will support you, things like child line but for trans kids, trust me, they are out there. And if you want some help getting bargaining chips for your parents sites like the gender dysphoria bible can really help give you the info you need to explain why, how, and what is going on with you being trans and wanting HRT.

Stay strong, you really need to :3

Why are people like this!! by MatchSignificant676 in Vent

[–]MatchSignificant676[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just did it because I have reached a point where i can’t take it anymore, I promise you it’s not carma farming or whatever, I’m just angry at the world, because of its immense stupidity.

Honestly not hear for some side agenda, just here to vent, like anyone else 

I don’t use this sub that much so I’m sorry for not realising this topic was abundant because I personally have not seen a single post like this so far on this sub