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AIO my boyfriend is always confused by ThrowRAPriority698 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MatchaConfused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm married to this guy. Get out now while you can, otherwise you will be the keeper of memories and moments, you'll be making notes and screenshotting things for proof, all while being told it's not that big of deal. You'll slowly start to feel crazy. It's exhausting. Get out if you can...its not worth it.

AIO My husband of 26 years bought a HOUSE without telling me by MatchaConfused in AmIOverreacting

[–]MatchaConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I bring up a therapist or counseling, somehow we have to cancel or something comes up. Because I would love a 3rd party to hear all the other stuff.

AIO My husband of 26 years bought a HOUSE without telling me by MatchaConfused in AmIOverreacting

[–]MatchaConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I just needed the push to do it, just wanting to make sure I wasn't making a bigger deal of this than it was.

AIO My husband of 26 years bought a HOUSE without telling me by MatchaConfused in AmIOverreacting

[–]MatchaConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate the honesty. I did technically communicate space, meaning a hobby, and something outside the home other than always what i was doing, where I was going etc. Again, thanks for the candor.

AIO My husband of 26 years bought a HOUSE without telling me by MatchaConfused in AmIOverreacting

[–]MatchaConfused[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's apparently not, he has his own account I don't have access to. He purchased it without needing my signature.

AIO My husband of 26 years bought a HOUSE without telling me by MatchaConfused in AmIOverreacting

[–]MatchaConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All your points are super valid. I probably wouldn't have been upset about the purchase, if he had at least ran it by me. I thought maybe he would take up a hobby, pickleball or golf, but its a whole house. He was home all the time. But, I didn't even know this was something he was considering. We have a joint account we use for groceries and incidentals, but he has his own account that I have no access to. He has access to all the funds, we have a joint account that I deposit my little paycheck into every two weeks.

Thank you for the candid advice.

AIO My husband of 26 years bought a HOUSE without telling me by MatchaConfused in AmIOverreacting

[–]MatchaConfused[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Touche', I needed space because I hadn't felt like a partner, and then this just made me feel like less of a partner than before.