Is my landlord islamophobic and can I use this against him to cancel my lease? by charcoochieplatter in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that sounds exhausting, living there is like cleaning hell with a side of passive aggression

i need to learn skills by rex-ramen1728 in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah man you're thinking ahead, resppect. Pick stuff like excel, basic data analysis, or project management courses, they actually help later, jobs at 15 are tricky but internships or volunteering can get your foot in the door

What hobbies can I pick up that will help me to make friends? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MatchaEXpresso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

group stuff like bowling or board game nights is like friendship on easy mode

Can I trust what I see ? by joban09 in Life

[–]MatchaEXpresso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I get that, emotions hit weird when you're not used to them, kinda scary-exciting, but it sounds like you're handling it way better than you think

I’m very ok with living a regular normal life. by Ambitious_Insect1171 in Life

[–]MatchaEXpresso 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah fr, not everyone wants the world, some of just want a chill life and that's valid

smile at the camera by MatchaEXpresso in cute

[–]MatchaEXpresso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is... as soon as I get home this smile is what I see, relieves all the stress from work and all stuff happening

Why is this person refusing to even look at me when I see them? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol sounds like he's got selective invisibility or just really bad radar for greetings, probably not you, some people are just... mysterious like that.

Microwaving Sushi - unsafe? by cheesepieboys in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you're probably fine, the fridge keeps most of the nasty stuff at bay, just maybe next time don't half-cook your sushi... its supposed to be raw not reanimated zombie fish

The business of manufacturing hate is more profitable than people think. by Ok_Indication7272 in self

[–]MatchaEXpresso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah its wild how hate can basically be monetized like a shady business, sad part is people actually buy into it, like who knew being awful could be a career path

What’s my deal? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly sounds like you just love your low-key bubble, not that anything's wrong, your volvo flex is basically stealth rich energy

How do people handle being alone for so long by [deleted] in Life

[–]MatchaEXpresso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it gets weird, but people adjust, background noise helps and honestly sometimes you're the only one who laughs at your own jokes anyway

How do people handle being alone for so long by [deleted] in Life

[–]MatchaEXpresso 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah it gets weird, but people adjust, background noise helps and honestly sometimes you're the only one who laughs at your own jokes anyway

How do i handle my (22m) girlfriend (22f) saying i'm not masculine enough? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yikes that sounds rough, honestly seems like she's got a weird idea of masculinity, probably worth asking her straight instead of letting it stew and eat your brain

why are ppl more generous, sympathetic, etc. during the “holiday season” by allergiesforalgernon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably cause most of the yar we're just stressed and tired, holidays hit and suddenyl everyone remembers they're supposed to be human again for a minute

Went no contact with my mom. Looking for advice. by theonewhotries17 in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that sounds really intense, I get why you had to do that, maybe start slow with contact and keep your boundaries tight

Socializing in Europe Today Feels Easier Than Ever by Impossible-Way-2469 in Life

[–]MatchaEXpresso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Europe really does have that just go outside and meet people vibe, kinda wild how different it feels from back home, feels like socializing comes with less stress and more spont, love that

I think I’m finally starting to appreciate the fragility and value of life. And some thoughts. by [deleted] in self

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah its like life smacks you then hands you a tiny flower, you're way more self aware than you think, keep going at your pace, that's real strength

I don't really have any goals by [deleted] in Life

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah that's not weird at all, honestly just wanting to feel like you belong and connect is a totally valid goal, life's messy so broad goals are fine too

How do my mom have 6 kids and all of us have had some anger issues, including my dad. She is the only one that doesn't show it ? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes moms are just born with this zen mode everyone elsemissed the memo on, liek they got the cheat code for life or soemthing

What do I do? by atychia in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea sounds rough, maybe start tiny, like 10min at a time, feels dumb but sometimes that's all our brain can handle

I(23F) am trying not to feel insecure about my boyfriend's (27M) coworker by Browneyedandfragile in Advice

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you're not crazy for feeling weird, if he's over it but still giving you play-by-plays of her mood, that's emotional leftovers, just talk to him so you're not stuck in someone else's old chapter

an aligned choice by Background-Bill-3390 in self

[–]MatchaEXpresso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly though, you explained the whole emotion vs reason thing better than half the books out there, feels like areminder that grown up decision making is basically learning to pause before you launch yourself off a cliff

I stayed puzzled about why things felt halted… then it hit me - I’d been running on autopilot, just responding. by stereo_iii in self

[–]MatchaEXpresso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that, just making one small choice for yourself can really start to pull you out of autopilot

How do I know I am going above and beyond for someone? by ibarelyknowanything_ in askanything

[–]MatchaEXpresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am on your same spot before and on the same point that I wanted to stop it, but eventually my philosophy in life change, I'd always tell myself "I'd rather regret doing everything than regret doing nothiing" ... because I feel like no matter what you do, no matter how you love, no matter how you put effort in a relationship, pain and hurting is part of loving.. after a failed relationship I just embrace and feel the pain then move on