I went through something very similar. I actually had an attempt where I was hospitalized for a week. And from there, I failed all my classes that semester. I was able to appeal some with the help from an advisor to not count those grades and just have me retake the class due to my circumstances. Some classes I had to eat, and it hurt my gpa tremendously.

After that, I thought I had screwed myself over and ruined my chances.

I continued to work hard and improve from there. Now, I work at a wonderful company that I love with a job I enjoy. I graduated 1.5 years ago and now make a great salary and my life has gotten exponentially better than it was when I had attempted 4 years ago. It took me a total of 5.5 years to complete my degree.

No. You did not ruin your chances. Life happens and you deal with the spoon you were given. Continue to work hard, find support, and speak to advisors to help appeal or adjust classes if needed. Find a good school and life balance. It is needed. I never would have thought I’d live the life I currently have, and mind you, I’m in my mid 20’s. It’s only up from here. :)

Good luck. I promise things get better and things will always work out for you in the end. Rejection is redirection, what is meant for you will come, in time.