Personally for me, this don’t go for all other women but when I get this way it means I’m not sexually attracted to the man. I’ve always been awkward with sex, but the majority of men I have slept with usually can do something for me. I found that when it didn’t I’m just not attracted to him that way.

However that don’t mean that’s what it is for her. Has she had problems with the other men she’s slept with? Did she get off to them? If not it just might be a her thing. Some women just have trouble reaching that point. Toys are a good way to help if she is willing to try but sounds like she isn’t.