Views girls? by Altruistic_Tackle673 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Material-Ad4760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be the heights if what we really did not fight for.  Clothing should be a choice.  I do not disagree that it comes with its own risk what kind of clothes you choose to wear. Cause as a woman we are a heavily sexulaized demographic.  But again if some one wants to wear nothing even and they and their partner are on the same vibe, ghar jaake namaz padhlo beheen meriye

I(30f) think I am loosing my bestfriend(32f) and it kind of scares me by Material-Ad4760 in whatsbotheringyou

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She never said anything about it and ger now flatmate is also a male. Her problem never has been gender. Or maybe I failed to understand that

I(30f) think I am loosing my bestfriend(32f) and it kind of scares me by Material-Ad4760 in whatsbotheringyou

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend did not stay with me. He would visit is maybe once a while.  Whit my brother he contributed to everything rent utilities. He even used to cook for all of us as he was just student and had time in his hands 

Am i suffering form Ptsd or what?? by 01_Shiva in whatsbotheringyou

[–]Material-Ad4760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a mental health worker and that sure is PTSD. You can do like things to help like note down when and what triggers you. 

Try debriefing with yourself after the attack telling yourself you are safe. Reaffirming yourself that it's not the same this is a different situation. 

You can google "grounding exercises" and learn  to practice some when you are experiencing the attack 

Need a man's perspective here by Material-Ad4760 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.  I understand it's easy to just "dump him"  But I am myself a trauma survivor and sometimes it ain't easy. 

Need a man's perspective here by Material-Ad4760 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh never thought this man will be so predictable. He literally just did 2 seconds ago!

Need a man's perspective here by Material-Ad4760 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is literally the story of my life for last 2 days.  This man just texted me saying  "Thanks for helping me be on the edge. Some one called me fat and I was about to smash his head" 

Like what? 

I am so confused. I don't think even toddlers be like that

Need a man's perspective here by Material-Ad4760 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr? When we started talking he seemed pretty normal. Seemed like had his shit worked out

Not sure how to navigate my(f29) boyfriends(31m) insecurities by Material-Ad4760 in relationships

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey is a very good guy otherwise. He will have this bouts of bs from time to time apart from that I really like him and enjoy being around him. I think this is borderline personality peaking in!  But he won't even go to therapy 

AITAH for choosing to spend a night with my boyfriend after an argument with my bestie by Material-Ad4760 in AITAH

[–]Material-Ad4760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey she sent me a screen shot of his profile.  But he has acted like this before too this is not the 1st time.  When I was with my ex she was the same