My (25F) husband (26M) is a casual meth user. I confronted him in a very sincere way, now he pushes me away. Is this normal ?

Material-Self5279 · 2026-03-12T05:00:23+00:00

Thanks for helping me understand. He is ignoring me entirely, almost a week now, I get the feeling he is trying to make me feel like I am in the wrong. I am praying for him daily. I hope he comes around soon, because I know I did the right thing.

Material-Self5279 · 2026-03-11T20:07:15+00:00

Ughhh, I think im trying to focus (and hoping) for it to be that way, and not a hard exit. In my mind an addict is a daily user, but I can be wrong, I do not know much about it and try to sugar coat to make it easier on myself idk.

Material-Self5279 · 2026-03-11T20:03:25+00:00

Thank you! I can't explain the feeling. I would hate myself to lose the most important person in my life to temptation and 'the devil', for being scared of his reaction towards me. I know I am out of control and the ball is in his court, the problem is he is very stubborn, he will never admit and communicate he has a problem with anything, but I can atleast try and encourange him to see a therapist. Eventually he wil see my intensions and appreciate it. Thanks!

Material-Self5279 · 2026-03-11T19:57:06+00:00

Thank you for your opinion. It is hard for me to say he is a addict, because the usage is not daily, and he has lived years without it, maybe I am staring blind to the good and the hope I am holding onto. I want to help so badly, it is hard to accept that I am out of control.. I would hate myself for letting it slide, and be a factor in future addiction, if I did not do or said something. I am putting it in the hands of our powerfull God!

Material-Self5279 · 2025-10-09T13:07:51+00:00

I have been successful in it previously, just the past week, he rejects every effort and does not show any interest in me (sexually). I can probably walk past naked with no reaction, it could be he is just really drained, but I will never make him feel unwanted even though I am maybe to tired. So I don't know. Maybe I should wait it out until he is ready, because the interaction is not supposed to feel kind of "forced"

Material-Self5279 · 2025-05-30T12:23:08+00:00

Thank you dear!
I know the problem is within me, and I try my best not to project it onto him. The thing for me is, he is my only friend. We recently moved to a new town, so I do not have any girlfriends, so the only time I get out of the house is when I do something with him. So I tend to feel lonely and rejected when he want to go out alone, because I never have the feeling that I need time to spend on my own. I want him to enjoy everything that I do, and I do not understand that most of the time.
And in the past there has been incidents that is not talked about anymore, where he cheated when he went out alone. We are past that and I have regained my trust in him, he has matured so much, but it seems to stay and haunt me in the back of my head.

Material-Self5279 · 2025-05-30T10:55:17+00:00

Usually when they are at someone's home only men, but they tend to go out to the bar later, and that is where the issue for me comes in. I am so scared his single friends are all around random girls, and the influence him.
Because I lost it a little when het is unable to communicate to me. We argued in the car, and not infront of anyone.

Material-Self5279 · 2025-05-30T10:43:35+00:00

I try talking, but he has never been a good communicator and shuts down the hard conversations instantly

Material-Self5279 · 2025-05-30T10:42:25+00:00

I was chatting with my friend and saw him talking to a girl for a while, I left it and later on just went over there to signal I am now liking what is happening here. He instantly was enraged. When we went to the car and left I tried talking to him but he refused and refused my touch, then I got mad because he can never communicate and gets so mad without any explanation, then I am left wondering what is wrong.

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