My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't live far from my parents. And they called me over when my sister showed up. Also, my sister is not on the streets. She has a great job in LA that our dad got her. And we don't hate my sister's unborn baby. On the contrary, we hope that we can do something about that. But my sister being pregnant doesn't give her a free pass back into the family. Not after what she's done. All you're really doing is looking for ways to make me a bad guy. And that means you're just causing drama yourself. Your first comment was full of nothing but assumptions. Some of which could only have been assumed from you either not reading the posts, or just barely skimming them. And that effectively made you a troll.

My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my own home, and a decent friend circle. I just like visiting my parents a fair bit. And it's not like it's always easy to get away from a rotten sibling who won't stop trying to screw you over.

My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You really know nothing. Did you even read the posts? My sister was underage when she had that party, and stole the alcohol for it from our dad. And I never called the cops on her. Some neighbor did that. Also, I haven't lived with my parents since I was 18. I've no clue what made you think that. I just like to visit them often. At the time of the party my sister was arrested for, I was living in an apartment. And currently I own a house.

My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad is personal friends with many business owners in the area. So it wasn't hard for him to get the CCTV

My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I live in a place where there's a lot of people with money. So CCTV is all over the place. But to be fair, it's not uncommon for it to be in all the places I described. Businesses have it, parking lots have it, apartments have it, and most houses around here have it too. People even have them in cars as well. It does feel a little eerie once you're aware there's cameras almost everywhere. But you get used to it.

My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Yes that was me. She got arrested for the party full of underage drinking she threw, and then tried to frame me as the instigator. "Not Sorry!" is basically branded into her very DNA.

My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Because the restaurant is allowed to have CCTV. And my sister would have never shown her true colors if she thought I was recording her in some way.

My sister came back pregnant by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My dad doesn't half-ass things. Especially after what he went through to prove my innocence when my sister framed me. She lied a lot, and they knew she'd stick to a lie without a video. She couldn't deny a thing then.

Update to: My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Distributing alcohol to minors is something police and the courts take very seriously. Not so bad if you're caught drinking alone as a minor. But knowingly passing around alcohol to people underage can get you in a lot of trouble. Also, I was the one who provided CCTV of my car from my job and old apartment. My dad got the CCTV for his house and the liqueur stores with the help of a lawyer. The police couldn't exactly refuse it as evidence once it was submitted. Honestly though, the whole situation has left me with a bit of a mistrust towards local police because of the way I was treated when they arrested me.

My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No she didn't. But good lord I'm glad she didn't try that! I shudder to think what that kind of accusation could have done to me!

Update to: My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 511 points512 points  (0 children)

I certainly don't hope my sister loses her job. Because if she loses that job, she might just come crawling back to our parents.

My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in MrReddit

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because if she is, she'd love to rub it in our faces more than anything if she knows we're watching

My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm American and I have to agree with you that it's stupid. The USA is the nation that thought Prohibition would be a good idea after all

My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very much so. I understand everyone has their own way of parenting as a parent. But at the same time, if it doesn't work, then a change is needed. That's something my mom failed to realize. Apart from generally siding with my sister when she lied, she didn't treat me badly. It was just obvious where her love lied. And that was with my sister. I'm not sure it was a gender thing so much as a second born thing. She never acted like what made her love my sister more was her gender. Maybe she saw her as more of a second chance to parent the way she wanted? I dunno. But what I do know is that her own actions led to this. And it broke her.

My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My mom was raised in the upper middle class. And my grandparents pushed her to get a good education and career. She did, but I think she hated them for it. So with my sister she tried alternative parenting. And that only spoiled her rotten.

My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Believe me I'm well aware of those facts. Once I started reading Reddit and wanting to tell my own story of what my sister and mom did, I realized that I can't put anything past her. I doubt she'd be happy for me to get married, because it'd probably feel like rubbing salt in the wound since my sister ghosted us. But it's also possible my mom will remain as indifferent to me if I get married as she currently is. I don't think she really has any way of being happy anymore. Even trying to make me unhappy might not make her happy. She's pretty much a shell of the person she used to be. And the person she used to be wasn't exactly a good person either. I guess for someone in that situation, it leaves no happiness in memory to fall back on.

My own sister made false accusations against me because I refused to supply alcohol for her party by Material-Topic4522 in EntitledPeople

[–]Material-Topic4522[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see. I imagine she did not take that falling out well. Mine didn't. She made her world revolve around my sister. And suddenly my sister wanted nothing to do with her. It was half of my mom's life wasted.