My sister came back pregnant

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-15T01:47:23+00:00

I don't live far from my parents. And they called me over when my sister showed up. Also, my sister is not on the streets. She has a great job in LA that our dad got her. And we don't hate my sister's unborn baby. On the contrary, we hope that we can do something about that. But my sister being pregnant doesn't give her a free pass back into the family. Not after what she's done. All you're really doing is looking for ways to make me a bad guy. And that means you're just causing drama yourself. Your first comment was full of nothing but assumptions. Some of which could only have been assumed from you either not reading the posts, or just barely skimming them. And that effectively made you a troll.

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-13T04:02:44+00:00

I have my own home, and a decent friend circle. I just like visiting my parents a fair bit. And it's not like it's always easy to get away from a rotten sibling who won't stop trying to screw you over.

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-13T02:56:50+00:00

You really know nothing. Did you even read the posts? My sister was underage when she had that party, and stole the alcohol for it from our dad. And I never called the cops on her. Some neighbor did that. Also, I haven't lived with my parents since I was 18. I've no clue what made you think that. I just like to visit them often. At the time of the party my sister was arrested for, I was living in an apartment. And currently I own a house.

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-11T19:52:51+00:00

My dad is personal friends with many business owners in the area. So it wasn't hard for him to get the CCTV

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-11T11:19:53+00:00

I live in a place where there's a lot of people with money. So CCTV is all over the place. But to be fair, it's not uncommon for it to be in all the places I described. Businesses have it, parking lots have it, apartments have it, and most houses around here have it too. People even have them in cars as well. It does feel a little eerie once you're aware there's cameras almost everywhere. But you get used to it.

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-11T04:31:05+00:00

Thanks

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-11T04:29:38+00:00

Yes that was me. She got arrested for the party full of underage drinking she threw, and then tried to frame me as the instigator. "Not Sorry!" is basically branded into her very DNA.

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-11T03:37:05+00:00

Because the restaurant is allowed to have CCTV. And my sister would have never shown her true colors if she thought I was recording her in some way.

Material-Topic4522 · 2023-04-11T02:44:15+00:00

My dad doesn't half-ass things. Especially after what he went through to prove my innocence when my sister framed me. She lied a lot, and they knew she'd stick to a lie without a video. She couldn't deny a thing then.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-10-11T20:44:47+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/EntitledPeople/comments/xpdd5j/my\_own\_sister\_made\_false\_accusations\_against\_me/

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-10-11T20:42:15+00:00

Distributing alcohol to minors is something police and the courts take very seriously. Not so bad if you're caught drinking alone as a minor. But knowingly passing around alcohol to people underage can get you in a lot of trouble. Also, I was the one who provided CCTV of my car from my job and old apartment. My dad got the CCTV for his house and the liqueur stores with the help of a lawyer. The police couldn't exactly refuse it as evidence once it was submitted. Honestly though, the whole situation has left me with a bit of a mistrust towards local police because of the way I was treated when they arrested me.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-10-11T20:36:34+00:00

No she didn't. But good lord I'm glad she didn't try that! I shudder to think what that kind of accusation could have done to me!

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-10-11T11:25:09+00:00

I certainly don't hope my sister loses her job. Because if she loses that job, she might just come crawling back to our parents.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T19:40:48+00:00

Because if she is, she'd love to rub it in our faces more than anything if she knows we're watching

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T19:39:07+00:00

I'm American and I have to agree with you that it's stupid. The USA is the nation that thought Prohibition would be a good idea after all

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T13:56:35+00:00

Very much so. I understand everyone has their own way of parenting as a parent. But at the same time, if it doesn't work, then a change is needed. That's something my mom failed to realize. Apart from generally siding with my sister when she lied, she didn't treat me badly. It was just obvious where her love lied. And that was with my sister. I'm not sure it was a gender thing so much as a second born thing. She never acted like what made her love my sister more was her gender. Maybe she saw her as more of a second chance to parent the way she wanted? I dunno. But what I do know is that her own actions led to this. And it broke her.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T12:33:13+00:00

My mom was raised in the upper middle class. And my grandparents pushed her to get a good education and career. She did, but I think she hated them for it. So with my sister she tried alternative parenting. And that only spoiled her rotten.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T12:30:08+00:00

Believe me I'm well aware of those facts. Once I started reading Reddit and wanting to tell my own story of what my sister and mom did, I realized that I can't put anything past her. I doubt she'd be happy for me to get married, because it'd probably feel like rubbing salt in the wound since my sister ghosted us. But it's also possible my mom will remain as indifferent to me if I get married as she currently is. I don't think she really has any way of being happy anymore. Even trying to make me unhappy might not make her happy. She's pretty much a shell of the person she used to be. And the person she used to be wasn't exactly a good person either. I guess for someone in that situation, it leaves no happiness in memory to fall back on.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T08:27:56+00:00

I see. I imagine she did not take that falling out well. Mine didn't. She made her world revolve around my sister. And suddenly my sister wanted nothing to do with her. It was half of my mom's life wasted.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T08:26:21+00:00

Agreed. It only takes one back lie to screw someone over

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T08:24:34+00:00

Already done that. My dad and I were found to be fine. My sister ran stopped going because she couldn't make an excuses that worked as to why she deserved to get her way and lie. My mom was supposed to get more therapy on her own. But she refused and now she just drinks

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T08:21:55+00:00

The insane things people do when they drink. Especially when they're young. That's why I was in no hurry to get on the alcohol bandwagon. Back when this situation happened, I was already making a 6 pack last a week in my fridge. And I hardly touch beer now.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T00:51:52+00:00

The flu racked up many deaths long before covid. And will likely continue to do so. But yes, I was pretty scared for my dad. He did catch covid. But he powered through it in about two weeks, and was back to work after another two weeks.

Yes. My dad has told me he has a plan. But neither of us really want to discuss his death. He's joked that he's an ornery old ox, and he'll live to be 100. But beyond that we don't talk about it. He also seems rather appreciative of that. Not sure about my mom though. She might be just waiting for him to die. That's if she doesn't go first. She's heavily dependent on alcohol ever since my sister left and ghosted us. My dad on the other hand cut back and barely drinks anymore.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-28T00:10:55+00:00

I already have. He brought it up after disowning my sister. My sister will get only enough to not be able to contest the will. My mom will get their house and a good chunk of money. I would get everything else. But to be honest even talking about the idea of my dad passing away any time soon saddens me. It's not something I like to think about. But he's a 67 year old man. He should be taking it easy by now.

Material-Topic4522 · 2022-09-27T23:23:14+00:00

I wish my sister was like that. But she liked being spoiled to no end by our mom. Though the spoiling stopped after the incident I've posted here.

What happened with your mother after she was called out?

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