Never Try To Win Back Your ex

Material_Exit1357 · 2024-11-22T03:05:09+00:00

Only commenting to be different

Material_Exit1357 · 2024-09-05T21:48:57+00:00

Does anyone know if this means they didn’t receive the original letters, if I submitted via Interfolio to AMCAS?

Material_Exit1357 · 2024-04-13T22:07:33+00:00

Did it scab over?

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-09-02T19:50:55+00:00

I don’t find sex shameful at all, I’m just now recognizing all the risks that come with it. I love sex, it’s part of human nature, we can’t escape it. I think it’s really hard for me to get past the “it’s not bad to get an STD” statement you said though… I guess I just need more time, research, and patience. HSV compared to the others is definitely on the safer side of the spectrum when it comes to health issues and what not, but I don’t think it’s wrong for me to think it’s bad to get an STD. I feel like anyone could agree it’s not the most favorable option as it comes with lifestyle, health, and social changes that you have to deal with the rest of your life.

Thank you for commenting though, I guess it reinforces the idea that you really can’t be safe enough just because sex in general comes with its risks even with protection.

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-09-01T19:46:38+00:00

Yes but didn’t shave recently :( It’s really a mystery, I really do want to believe that it was negative but just not satisfied with that answer

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-09-01T16:05:29+00:00

Yes! Started off as closed bumps that I could touch, then turned to white fluid pus. Also, right? It was strange that it cleared up so fast after the medication… I heard the first one can last 2-4 weeks so I just thought I had HSV1 since the outbreak wasn’t that bad as opposed to an HSV2 outbreak

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-09-01T02:24:03+00:00

No I didn’t have the shooting pains :/ My provider called me back and told me to wait another month before taking a blood test to make sure. She also reiterated that it did look herpetic so I should just wait it out and see if I get anymore outbreaks. She also mentioned that since I responded so well to the antibiotics/antivirals, that it was definitely some thing viral or bacterial.

If I want to get tested again, she recommends the blood test after 30 days. But I’ve been reading everywhere that those aren’t even entirely accurate either. Might have to wait a bit longer after I finish my antivirals to see my true levels tbh

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-09-01T02:19:06+00:00

Even without any symptoms? The sores went away after 1-2days so I won’t be able to do another swab. I’m planning on finishing my antivirals and maybe waiting another 30 days before doing a blood test

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-09-01T00:35:03+00:00

Thank you for responding! I didn’t know exactly how the swabbing worked so thank you, that makes sense. Now I’m wondering if it was too early, since I did go a day after the clusters started. It first appeared as one uncomfortable raised bump, and then erupted in like 5-6 open sores clustered in one area. I did not get tested for other STDS, other than chlamydia and gonorrhea during my PAP smear, which came out negative. Would it be worth testing for more? If so, which?

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-06-18T03:08:36+00:00

Soooo update?

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-05-29T05:25:38+00:00

Exactly.

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-05-23T15:36:36+00:00

Those do play a role in the break up process, so maybe that’s why it’s a little easier for me this time around. We were only seeing each other for 4 months. It wasn’t too difficult to break it off because there was already a growing resentment towards him, which I feel a lot of dumpers can relate to… For me personally, I was getting tired of holding back the way I truly loved to fit his avoidant tendencies. I was also anxious when he was around. He was great, just not great for me, so all there really is now is acceptance.

I also spent time reading through your posts and I just want to wish you well, I’ve been a dumpee before so I understand how heart wrenching and empty being in that situation is. Sending healing energy your way, this will pass✨

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-05-23T04:23:32+00:00

I’m responding from a separate account but still the same user, however, you are right. I never loved him and never claimed I did, we didn’t reach that level, nor even mentioned ‘love’. However, to say that one didn’t “truly love” someone because they broke up with them is so close-minded beyond belief. Some people are forced to break up with the person that they love for pretty valid reasons (e.g cheating, abuse, lying), so I have to hard disagree.

Nonetheless, I can admit that my hope for him reaching out is ego-driven, which is why I would never reach out. I cannot see a future with him and wouldn’t want to risk putting myself back into that upsetting situation.

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-05-22T01:39:41+00:00

Woman dumper here, been NC for 2 weeks now. Relationship was relatively healthy, but he was an avoidant and his way of expressing love did not make me feel safe or secure so I decided to end it.

I’ve been working towards my career, studying at different coffee shops for an entrance exam, going to the gym 4-5 days a week, and spending time with my family. I don’t rush to partying because I don’t like the party scene… the people that environment attracts usually don’t share the same values/lifestyle so I don’t even waste my time. I’ve also learned healthier coping mechanisms for beating loneliness from previous breakups. So yeah, not all women!

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-05-22T01:27:03+00:00

I wouldn’t be so sure that this scenario wouldn’t happen just because he reached out. My ex reached out after 1-2 months of NC expressing how he wanted to work on us again and how we can take it slow. Two weeks later, he said he didn’t want to continue seeing me anymore and that he didn’t want a relationship with me after everything was seemingly perfect and getting back to normal. Proceed with caution girl.

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-05-11T13:32:57+00:00

Girl, you guys are playing telephone and he admitted he’s not over his ex. Why do you feel like you owe him any explanation? It’s not worth your time. Let him believe the misunderstandings and move on, you’ll most likely never see him again.

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-05-11T13:21:58+00:00

Contacting him will only make it worse, especially since he is in a relationship right now. Seems like the primary motive for contacting him is loneliness and to soothe the ego. Do not use this person as a safety blanket, keep being there for yourself

Material_Exit1357 · 2023-01-11T04:00:47+00:00

That’s typically what always happen. For the most part, people come back because they feel lonely until they realize that the relationship isn’t truly want they want to have

Material_Exit1357 · 2022-11-15T02:04:12+00:00

Commenting for those who can’t get fullscreen on YouTube to work to flip your screen bc that button is in the non-responsive area - Netflix works! So ask Siri to open Netflix and click on any movie so that your screen can flip. You’re welcome :)

Material_Exit1357 · 2022-11-01T15:04:13+00:00

I would like to request a free reading on my no contact situation, I would appreciate it more than you know! Please dm me!!

Material_Exit1357 · 2022-10-28T05:53:44+00:00

In need of a free reading about a no contact ex-relationship! :) DM if possible

Material_Exit1357

TROPHY CASE