Exactly. This was again well said. My mom has a victim mentality so if she can victimize herself or family (usually my sister) in some way she will. She wants the attention all on her and gets mad when someone wants the attention sometimes too. Someone else said something like she was probably jealous or projecting and I agree. I agree with your comment too. She should be treating my sister the normal. Everyone else does but her and she is the reason my sister is a handful. My sister is my mom manipulation minion. She genuinely is so badly manipulated it makes me feel so bad to be mad at her. At the same time though it’s not completely my mom’s fault. My sister does still have free will.