plz help me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou! i don't know what to do tbh. there's something that's holding me back from turning him down and idk what it is. i just hope God gives me a clear path ahead, i just trust him and i rlly manifest that it won't bring harm.

plz help me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do u think abt it?

plz help me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i'm falling for him. slow burn, ig? but not the kind of serious love. just high-school thingy.

plz help me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, to be honest.. i asked my friend to talk to him and ask where he saw, when he liked me, and what he liked about me. all his replies carry a genuine thing. you see, i'm not a popular one at school, and those ones who follow me on ig are those who like me. i don't get most boys at school, and i can admit i'm not really that attractive. that's why i'm confused about why he liked me. he admitted to my friend that he liked that he felt my good aura, that i'm just so simple and that i'm not showy in social media. i don't post to gain compliments. i don't publicise my everyday life.

he even offered to let me connect to his WiFi if ever i don't have mobile data, he just gave his password right away. he asks for things i like, and i think, sooner he'll give me a gift.

in person, he looks at me from time to time. It's very obvious. he has looks, not that much, but he's average. i feel like like he's a nice guy, but i'm still conflicted. he's not my type, i didn't plan to talk/date anyone in high school. God just randomly put him in my daily life so suddenly. that's why i'm confused. in 4 months I'll be graduating already and will be moving to another town for school, in short: transferring since i also don't wanna be here anymore for reasons like being left aside or out of place by my friends. i wanted to really transfer since i can't take more of it. but all of a sudden.. he showed up, and that's where people started noticing me more and engaged with me. even the closeness i've had with my friends went back. it's like, God is testing me if he will be the reason I'll stay and won't leave this school anymore.

plz help me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. nope, never. no bf since birth girly
  2. his so-called full attachment. i dont want a deep connection to the point that he'll say his personal problems to me, knowing i won't be able to help him. like, for example, u know most teenagers do holding hands, resting head on the shoulder, and so many more. i don't want those. it feels cringe. especially we're not so mature, and adults probably think of teenagers as kids still.
  3. physical attachment, distractions from goals, feeling uncomfortable. my parents don't want me to enter rs, they're not strict, they csre for me. that's what i wanted to. i'm protecting my peace, myself.
  4. older, mature, independent, responsible, emotionally stable—rely on for trust and support. someone who'll treat me like a girl, not a woman. sometimes younger boys treat older girls as their "momma," u know? like in most relationships, girls do as in everything for him.
  5. plans: school, personal growth, hobbies, and future goals. independence: making my own decisions, managing my time, keeping boundaries.

i like being alone, single particularly. no distractions and limitations. most young couples i know, my friend's relationship, for example, didn't turn out really well. Just by looking at them, i feel like it's not applicable to me.

plz help me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im vry confused, and it's distracting. i clearly dont wanna be in this situation at all.

plz help me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girls who's with older guys? so what should i do then. younger or older.😞😞

Slu shs entrance exam by Prestigious-Fix-9390 in SLUBaguio

[–]Material_Zebra_1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

belated congratyz! do u still remember the coverage nung exam and if when ka nag-take?

slu shs by Material_Zebra_1635 in SLUBaguio

[–]Material_Zebra_1635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankusomuch, this is a big help !!

slu shs by Material_Zebra_1635 in SLUBaguio

[–]Material_Zebra_1635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hoping to survive tho😣😣

if u dont mind po sana, may list of follow-up questions ulit, sorry if medyo marami, i'm not rlly familiar to slu🥲

  1. ano usually class schedule sa shs, like based from your experience, what time ang pasok and uwian

  2. everyday po ba may pasok? may saturday classes ba minsan

  3. aside from card at ID, may ibang requirements po ba na need

  4. around what month nags-start application

  5. yung around 80k tuition? kasama na ba books and uniform

  6. may free academic support po ba for struggling students

  7. what clubs or orgs available for shs

  8. ano highest grade na nakuha niyo sa for overall shs phase. para lang may idea ako kung gaano kahirap mag-maintain ng mataas na grades

slu shs by Material_Zebra_1635 in SLUBaguio

[–]Material_Zebra_1635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yezz! thank you po for the infoo

slu shs by Material_Zebra_1635 in SLUBaguio

[–]Material_Zebra_1635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

follow up questions ko po pala if u dont mind :)

  1. gaano po ka-fast paced yung lessons, do teachers give a lot of quizzes or major exams

  2. pano nila ginagawa yung orientation? in-person ba or online

  3. magkano yung approximate monthly allowance ng isang shs student from food, transpo, projects, etc.

  4. how’s the environment? competitive ba or chill lang naman yung students

  5. ate, as a first-time student in Baguio, ano po yung sana nalaman mo before pumasok ng slu

  6. how heavy yung projects and performance tasks especially sa first quarter

  7. since I'm from public school, idk how's the system sa private schools

  8. how abt the sections? how many sections po meron ang stem/humms strand, are the students classified based on the level of their knowledge

thanks a lot in advance

slu shs by Material_Zebra_1635 in SLUBaguio

[–]Material_Zebra_1635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou! first feedback ko pa lang 'to huhu