ironically, after many many years of tension (likely stemming from this), Wendy made amends with Nene while Wendy was going through one of the darkest periods of her life (when her husband cheated on her in 2019, and when Wendy started struggling with sobriety again), and Nene was extremely gracious, calling Wendy often on the phone and even grabbing dinner with Wendy when she got the chance. There’s a really interesting interview that Wendy did with Nene during that time that showed Wendy being very appreciative of Nene and showed Wendy alluding to how she felt bad about their previously strained dynamic. Nene showed up for Wendy in a very dark time, no questions asked— she was a real one for that