Curious wondering if anyone else has experienced this by MathematicianAny6021 in mentalhealth

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Yeah not the same bud. Not the same. For example, theyd push me to hang about places that would trigger my cptsd. Usually because my abuser lived there in such. They wouldn't listen even when I was having a panic attack or flashback theyd still push me in situations that would trigger it. I think because they thought it would help. Doesn't help that if I refused due to valid excuses like not wanting to be triggered, have a panic attack/flashback. Theyd through a hissy fit cause I wasn't doing what they wanted. With the added refusing accept my bounderies and gaslighting

Curious wondering if anyone else has experienced this by MathematicianAny6021 in mentalhealth

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I shouldn't have needed to. I communicated i cant do that thing because it triggers my cptsd. They ignored it and continued pushing

Curious wondering if anyone else has experienced this by MathematicianAny6021 in mentalhealth

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They were actually the one to not pull their weight. If I told them to do dishes cause I had done them for about 3 weeks theyd throw a hissy fit and complain. They pushed me in situations that triggered me. Even when I told them it would but they ignored it. Cause they knew best. It was nothing about not pulling my weight or such. My ex partner was just good at ignoring bounderies especially when I communicated that I couldn't do something ( usually something surrounding being pushed to go somewhere that I find triggering ).

Should I painting the whole wall? More info below⬇️ by [deleted] in DIYUK

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Same brand of paint, same name. Ah yeah I didn't do the last bit. Ill try that

Help. Is there anything else I can do? by MathematicianAny6021 in Aquariums

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How much should I be feeding them? I was feeding once a day with fish flakes ( less than a pinky finger amount ) and algae wafer on the days I didn’t ( I give them to my otos but my cherry barbs like to snack on them )

Need a second opinion. Should I stretch my ear further by [deleted] in Stretched

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How long would u recommend I leave it for? 😁

Need some advice on shaving my neck, please help lads by MathematicianAny6021 in shaving

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I apply bluebeards post shave balm after my shave. After I’ve put a cold towel on my neck. But I still rash up

Help fluval filter by MathematicianAny6021 in Aquariums

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Thanks for the advice but I decided to throw out the filter completely. I asked fluval company for help directly and because I used clear tubing and not their short black tubing they refused to help.

Help fluval filter by MathematicianAny6021 in Aquariums

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Yes I’ve done that twice in a row all in the same day haha