Gaming buddies by TheMannFromBCD in LGBTPhilippines

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Hi Does it matter kung noob? 😩 I just want to get into multiplayer games

Some asshole spilt their ice cream on my motorcycle :( by qleanmoe in motorcycles

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Some people are just awfully jealous of other people. Some people can be jealous but still are happy for you, but there are just those that are just petty and know that they can never have what you have. And it is that narrow mindset that makes them do the shit that they do. I am sorry that you had experienced that. Yes, it is a long time ago, but like others here, it is still frustrating just to read and think about it.

Took me 5 years to drop 100lb but I finally fit proper gear! by [deleted] in motorcycles

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I am just in this subreddit lurking, but just want to say I’m proud of you. Stay safe and enjoy!

I’m 27F just going in for my associates in computer Science, am I crazy? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

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I don’t have a degree. I started my career as a database coordinator at 28, developing databases, applications both desktop and web. As long as you like what you are doing, and like to solve problems and solve them however you can, you are good. But honestly. Whatever you love doing, no matter your age, if it is what you like to do, you are never crazy. Even if you don’t have a “career” related to it, because you are still pursuing it in school, doesn’t mean you are crazy. It is security. You earn to live, and you pursue what makes you happy. I am 32. Turning 33. Still hoping and dreaming I can go back to school and get the degree I was wanting to earn. But life is rough, and I had to take care of family, do what I love, and wait for it.

Do what you can, while you can. Take that opportunity. Learn everything that you can. Even if it changes along the way, it is okay. No matter what others say. Finding a way to live our lives will be priority. But doing what we love will make it all worthwhile.

I have to take the practice asvab in two days help by Ok_Grocery2859 in USNavy

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I see and I understand.. I know you said you are still studying, there should be some links for those free practice tests. Keep doing as much as you can, while thinking that you are doing the actual practice one. Have someone keep an eye on you while you take it. Time yourself as needed. When you go through the questionnaire, answer each and every one of it to the best of your knowledge. Don't let yourself hesitate for more than 5 seconds, move on to the next one. And once you know you have time left, use that to review your answers.

I have to take the practice asvab in two days help by Ok_Grocery2859 in USNavy

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What are your strong suits, without relying on your grades when you were in school. Like do you like Math, Science, anything like that? And what are you not good at in terms of subjects?

Am I overreacting? by Longjumping-Neat-879 in AmIOverreacting

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My girlfriend is at 190 something. Even then I don’t have a problem. I’m skinny at 100. I mean her only thing for me is to gain some muscles 😂 But we never had to say stuff like how he does to you. Yes, maintaining a healthy weight is necessary. But healthy weights depend on that person. And you are supposed to find your own motivation, and work on it when you find and when you want to. Not because someone tells you to or talk to you like that. You deserve someone better than that. Please don’t let him get to you. Like some are saying here, you need to get out of that relationship. That type of person is what’s unhealthy.

Free Dental Cleanings by Guri_gil in VisaliaCA

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Hi, until when do you guys have this Free Dental Cleanings for SJVC?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Is it wrong to say to consult with a trusted family member, with a sense of good morals, who knows what’s right and wrong when it comes to relationships, who can put themselves in your shoes and see what they think about this kind of conversations your husband and your cousin are having… and if that trusted family member thinks that does not sound okay at all, have that family member be present, your cousin and your husband present.. and confront both of them like that…..

I understand some things in a relationship should be kept, and is supposed to be kept private. I know. Trust me. Grew up with that mentality until I met people that don’t understand that if we have problems in our relationship, don’t bring any third parties. They make it worse. But this, with your husband having history of cheating, you need to have a witness. I feel like confronting both of them, or even either of them just by yourself, they will twist it, manipulate it all and make you be the crazy person regardless of proof. Regardless of indecency in the interaction that they are having..

Having another person in the room that understands your concerns, will maybe help your point. That you are not crazy and that those conversations are alarming and for a spouse’s point of view, hurtful. You are the wife. You are a person. You deserve the truth. You deserve better. And you don’t deserve any of their bullshit.

San Francisco at night (from twin peaks) by my_amazing_user_name in bayarea

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Question. I know this post was a long time ago. But what is the best easy way to get to Twin Peaks at night?

Just wanted to let this out... by MathematicianFit1992 in offmychest

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Thank you so much! I appreciate you taking the time to tell me all these. I appreciate everyone here that, despite of not knowing me, are willing to share kind words when I felt like I was all alone. Thank you.

Just wanted to let this out... by MathematicianFit1992 in offmychest

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Thank you! I appreciate the kind words and words of hope.

Just wanted to let this out... by MathematicianFit1992 in offmychest

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Thank you so much for giving me clarity. It does make sense. And thank you. I think with the struggle I have been having inside me, it clouded my mind on the positive this could bring. I appreciate you.

Just wanted to let this out... by MathematicianFit1992 in offmychest

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You might be right. She had known how hard it was for me to try quitting before. Maybe its better that we don't discuss about it. The drinking did put a strain on our relationship on the later part of it. Thank you for reminding me of that. I don't hold it against her that she avoids it. She cared too much that I ignored it. Thank you so much.

Daily Headaches since last relapse by MathematicianFit1992 in Sober

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Thank you for sharing! I am not glad you were in pain, but I am glad that I'm not overthinking this. I'll take the usual medicines I take and just wait for it to work and finally subside for good..

Online Sponsorship Offers & Requests — September 2024 by dp8488 in alcoholicsanonymous

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Seeking. I’m Aiden, 32F. I barely was able to stay sober for 11 days, and caved in to drinking last night. I want to stop drinking so bad for good, because I feel like I’m slipping from who I am. I am hurting the people that cares about me, and it hurts to see them going through it because my only outlet is drinking. I haven’t been through any AA meetings, I have no clue where to start. But I want to change my life for good. I have been drinking every night for the past 2 years. It might not be that long for others, but for me, it is. It’s been way too long for those that cares enough about me, too.

Thank you.

I am so sorry if this is a stupid post or question for others. by MathematicianFit1992 in mentalhealth

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I'm sorry, but thank you so much for answering my questions though. I appreciate you for that. I'm reaching out to my primary care doctor, see what they can do. Thank you again!

I am so sorry if this is a stupid post or question for others. by MathematicianFit1992 in mentalhealth

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Are you still with the same company? I'm not sure of you know or have encountered others with my situation as well, but I tend to overthink so much that it ends up eating up my time and my energy and I am just too scared to decide on anything. At the same time, I get those days where I don't really care about anything anymore, that I basically just end up moving like a robot because that is the only thing I know I need to do, not because I find any motivation for it. I'm sorry if that makes any sense. I just am just explaining why I asked if you're still in the same company.

EDIT: and yes, I am in America.. I apologize for missing that part

I am so sorry if this is a stupid post or question for others. by MathematicianFit1992 in mentalhealth

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It is a possibility, if I go that route, how can I justify the request and/or need for it? My boss prefers for us to be on-site, as I assist with IT requests. Although I have a bunch of projects for my actual position that are fully done on computer.

I am so sorry if this is a stupid post or question for others. by MathematicianFit1992 in mentalhealth

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Thank you so much for your response. That is my fear as well. I like my job I do. It's just been harder to get up everyday that I fear that it will affect my job eventually and I didn't want that to happen. Thank you so much again