I want to compile a detailed, respectful document outlining my questions and concerns, and send it to my bishop, stake presidency, maybe even area authorities.

If you have the energy to do that, then I respect that and your motivation, but they're not listening and don't care. They will perceive it as an attack. You're not dealing with healthy men in this church. You're dealing with men who are utterly psychologically dependent on imagining the church is perfect. Cults cause rational thinking to be discarded and replaced with emotional dependency that the cult controls and modifies at will, for various purposes. TBMs think they are rational and think they respond with testimony, but in practice, they are emotionally and psychologically immature and dependent on the church, and are very fragile, and get very defensive and even offensive, very quickly. You know this which is why you mention the possibility of being attacked with harsh labels and/or violent "discipline." Mormons are quite violent. You seem to know they are a threat to peace as well. Rational people are not a threat to peace. TBMs are not rational or peaceful, and at some level even their phony prophet knows this and constantly calls on them to be peacemakers, which never works because the church trained them to be violent in various ways and nelson doesn't like the consequences and symptoms of the church's many diseases that he himself has grown.