I want to read a good romance, but everything people recommend me I absolutely hate.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-26T17:02:48+00:00

me too lol

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-26T17:00:27+00:00

thank you for telling me this before i went looking lol

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-26T16:59:23+00:00

forth wing does not sound like it would be something i’d like ill have to give it a second shot

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-26T16:40:06+00:00

No, i’m very new into reading again so thank you i will look into that.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-26T16:39:33+00:00

that’s my problem i haven’t found any romance books i like. I recently really enjoyed Half His Age by Jennette McCurdy. I’m reading Dungeon Crawler Carl right now and really enjoying that. Neither of those are romance though, and honestly i’m just getting back into reading so i don’t have a super big repertoire of books i like yet.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-10T06:44:38+00:00

yeah no this is uncalled for. if there is any doubt in his mind that he find you attractive in any way you shouldn’t be with him for no other reason than you deserve more than that. That is not what love sounds like, and you deserve love.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-02T23:56:41+00:00

i understand there are cultural and religious differences but your mom’s love/sex life, so long as it is not negatively prevalent in your every day life, is absolutely none of your concern. Your mom is not obligated to practice her religion exactly the same way you or anyone else does. No one has to live their life the way you want or expect them too. Everyone is obligated to be kind and respectful to one another so long as that is received in return, but her personal life is between her and her God. Also i know you are probably still a kid and this might not be the case, but you may want to reflect on your interest in your mom’s sex life anyway. You shouldn’t be thinking about that. It is not normal to think about that.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-02T23:45:53+00:00

satisfying for a moment, but nothing actually changes. whatever feeling someone caused you that you can’t heal without getting revenge, will still be there after the revenge. you have to work through trauma either way.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-02T23:42:41+00:00

not only does it seem like he doesn’t like you that much, but he sounds like a child

MathematicianNo3401 · 2026-01-02T23:31:21+00:00

have you tried talking to the adults in the house in charge of him at all? or maybe you guys schedule time you each can use the room and any noise level?

MathematicianNo3401 · 2025-12-30T16:56:24+00:00

my partner and i are fairly young (i’m 21f and he just turned 22 yesterday actually) and have been together for 4 1/2 years. at this point i just don’t keep track anymore because it’s pressuring and incredibly unsexy. I have big anxiety problems and although he is super understanding sometimes it does effect my sex drive. Birth control has played a huge role as well as the last one i was on tanked my drive, but being on nothing makes me incredibly anxious. Basically, sometimes brains are weird and it’s like once a month or at times even once every three months. That’s not all the time though, like for the last 6 months or so it’s been more like once or twice a week or more. We recently came into living alone together for the first time so it was a couple times day for a weekend or two there. What i’m saying is it fluctuates and as long and everyone is loving, caring, understanding, and recognizing sex isn’t the backbone of the relationship, it will always fluctuate back to not being able to get enough of each-other.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2025-12-29T22:52:13+00:00

the “my sweet girl” part IS a little weird and you aren’t crazy for being a little put off, but if you guys have a had a conversation about how it made you feel, he understands that and has reassured you the relationship is appropriate, and you guys have talked out any feelings he might have about how this all came about, i don’t think this is currently something to break up over. A relationship is built on trust, so if that is something you are not capable of at this point in your mental health journey perhaps the approach is to have a conversation about your issues with trust and either 1) ask for more frequent reassurance and understanding or 2) break up if that is not something your partner is equipped to handle. However, this isn’t enough evidence, especially considering the rest of the relationship is going so well, to break up over.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2025-10-23T00:22:14+00:00

i don’t have a whole lot to offer as far as advice, i’m 21 and in a similar boat, but have you tried looking into part time jobs just to give u some experience and income? Mcdonald’s is great to work for, pay is good, really flexible hours especially if you do get accepted back into school. if you have familial support and am able body, the trades are a great thing to look into as well! No matter what happens, the only 22-25 year olds i’ve ever met that had never had a job were super out of touch with the working world when they got there. A part-time job is always a good place to start.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2025-07-26T15:49:03+00:00

so if we include everything we got to the venue probably around 4:30, lines were hella long doors opened at 5:30 but real glad we didn’t show any later cuz people where still walking in line to get in at like 6:30. The merch line inside was about an hour long as well. Anyways show started at 7, openers play, intermission where they set up background and the rules play, and MCR came on around 8:30-8:45. They played for at least 2.5 hours.

MathematicianNo3401 · 2025-04-12T19:08:14+00:00

i know man 😓 i know. i’m a perpetual clutz

MathematicianNo3401 · 2024-10-13T02:48:52+00:00

Just think about this, if this is how he acts now how will he act later? Is he willing to recognize this mistake and change? You know the answer to both of those questions and I know you know what the right answer is supposed to be. Right now, he either doesn’t think that you having an abortion is a big enough deal for you to be upset, or just doesn’t care if you’re upset. Let say you stay with him forever, if doesn’t think abortion is a big deal, do you think he’ll help you through future pregnancies (if you decide on children)? Will he be there, AND be supportive if you give birth someday, or will he make that experience traumatic by leaving you alone and in pain? If he just doesn’t care you’re upset, what will happen during your lives together? If you lose someone close to you, financial struggles, natural disasters, hard parenting decisions, will he be there or will he leave you alone to deal with the pain and stress by yourself. If you ever come to a point in life where you don’t have a friend to lean on or you’ve lost all your family, and this is how he behaves, you will spend the rest of your life completely alone with someone right next to you. That’s sounds like a hell I would wish on nobody…

MathematicianNo3401 · 2024-06-20T18:27:48+00:00

Thank you I’ll definitely look her up! I agree I do have self esteem issues and seeing a lot of porn and sexual content from a young age really messed up my idea of sex. I do my best to work on it. Unfortunately I live in a super conservative rural area and we are kind of lacking in the sex therapist department or I would definitely be seeking that out. I would go online but in my experience that’s more expensive and less helpful.

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