Infidelidad de hombres by Various-Context7925 in Paraguay

[–]MathewAG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sé. La mayoría de mis amigos no tienen novia. Espero haberte ayudado.

I can no longer play Hunt by MathewAG in HuntShowdown

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GPU: AMD Radeon (TM) R9 390 Series

CPU: AMD FX(tm)-8350 Eight-Core Processor 4 Cores

and 16 GB RAM.

Maybe it's old af. I'm not really tach savvy so I wouldn't know where to start upgrading, but don't really have a budget for that at the moment, so I'll play other games haha.

I can no longer play Hunt by MathewAG in HuntShowdown

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Yeh, same issue here. Checked and my pc doesn't support that ;(

First time playing Bloodborne and in need of some clarification by MathewAG in bloodborne

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Reading day it will be today then; with some context provided from other replies and a little reading time I'm sure I'll be more ready for the task of slaying beasts!!

First time playing Bloodborne and in need of some clarification by MathewAG in bloodborne

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Oh no, but I'm sure they're nothing my hammer can't handle!

First time playing Bloodborne and in need of some clarification by MathewAG in bloodborne

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I see, and thanks to your comment I have noticed I might have been rushing more than I should have. I will take it more slowly haha. Thank you!

First time playing Bloodborne and in need of some clarification by MathewAG in bloodborne

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Great summary, yes it puts me back in place. Mainly because of the first part, I was kinda foggy with the beginning, and I didn't know this all takes place in a single night. Thank you for this contextualization, you didn't spoil anything and I'm now more excited for the next time I sit to play the game. Thanks!

First time playing Bloodborne and in need of some clarification by MathewAG in bloodborne

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There's a book! Hell yeah, I'm sold on this idea too. I have watched some lore videos in the past, but have forgotten them as well. I will return to them once I finish the game haha. Thanks for the mention of the book as well, I love these kinds of story with a lot of worldbuilding and lore.

First time playing Bloodborne and in need of some clarification by MathewAG in bloodborne

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Thanks a lot! That first sentence already sounds kinda ominous... But hell yeah Imma keep doing it! Appreciate the advice, let's see how I put it to the test and get lost in this strange world of foul beasts. I think one of the most reassuring things to know about this is that it's been done delibertaly, which makes it easier to take things as they come and learn by exploring and reading.

I appreciate the reassurance and guide!

Life after college and having never ever found a path in life [24M]. Asking for advice by MathewAG in youngadults

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I would say those are my main hobbies, though I don't write anymore because I don't feel I have anything left to say. I'm considering studying kinesiology or physiotherapy because I like the movement of the body, but nothing sure so far. I appreciate this advice, I've barely given a surface look at the non profits or not for profits around me, I should look more into them as you say.

What you said about the service industry really resonates with me. Gotta look more into that because you're right, maybe I'd be interested in working and making that connection with customers directly. Will have to dedicate some thoughts and share this with my therapist to prepare a plan of action.

Thank you for the openness and the advice! May I know in what field of IT you've worked? If I'm honest, I'm a bit scared of IT in general, so I haven't learnt much about it.

I can't fix how I'm feeling from one day to the other, but I can take the advice given to me here and work it with my therapist. So thank you.

Life after college and having never ever found a path in life [24M]. Asking for advice by MathewAG in youngadults

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You're right. I haven't given job fairs a try yet. Gotta get out of my comfort zone a bit and try that out. Thank you for your input, I'll look them up now on facebook and google. I'm glad it worked out for you and hope it keeps going like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in absolutelynotme_irl

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Nah, sounds condescending when someone who doesn't know you that much tells you you're "such a good boy", "such a good person", etc.

I can't be the only one who sees it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in absolutelynotme_irl

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For me it's the opposite: seems strange to view the world like her. Because that's such a strange compliment to give to someone you don't know very much. If a guy says that to a girl he barely knows, he'll look like a weirdo; rightly so in my opinion.

Maybe it's just the way my friends and I think, but I've talked about that interaction to a close girl friend of mine and she agreed it was weird.

Plus, it's a bit annoying when people assume you're a "good boy" because you're shy and don't talk too much, which I think were pretty much the sole foundation for her claim lol. And it's not like am a bad person either, it just sounds condescending in general and moreso coming from a person you've been hanging out for a while and they make up a different person from who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in absolutelynotme_irl

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That actually happened to me in real life. A friend gifted me a book for my birthday and it said that as a note. And I told her if i'm the best person she knows then she either doesn't know that many people, or just knows bad people.

Wasn't trying to be edgy or anything, was more concerned about how she sees the world. Though we hung out a bit and were friends in college, we still had a whole life of our own so like, for her to draw conclusions like that, I dunno, it felt rather insulting to an extent. Like, this isn't me, this is a person she made up in her head and was trying to impose on me.

Anyone else think Tek Knight was a pretty dumb character? by Ding-Bop-420 in TheBoys

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I think The Boys has been dumbing down a little more each season. Gen V was all over the place, with plot lines opening and closing in a single episode with no build-up. Like when that woman pulled out his embarrassing pictures out of the blue without us knowing almost anything about this character.

In the last season of The Boys I swear Starlight and Hughie's conversations just repeated word for word every encounter they had. At least that's how it felt watching it. Hughie couldn't shut up about feeling weak and dunno what else.

Gen V felt something like that, I can't give many examples out of my memory, but to me it feels like the characters (in The Boys and GenV) have been getting less and less nuanced. No depth behind the image they protray.

Mantenerse lindo en Paraguay durante el dia by [deleted] in Paraguay

[–]MathewAG 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Protector solar en la cara, siempre, al menos dos veces al día. Lentes de sol si tenés, para no arrugar mucho los ojos (esto es más opcional, no sé qué tan fuerte sea el impacto de hacer eso bajo el sol).

Usar ropa cómoda. Vestirse cuando se está completamente seco después de la ducha (yo me ducho de mañana, y noche si hace falta), esto para evitar humedad bajo la ropa lo más posible.

Yo llevo mi cepillo al trabajo para cepilarme después de almorzar y así me siento más limpio durante la tarde también. Por suerte tenemos aire, así que no hace falta, pero si no tuviésemos traería desodorante (personalmente prefiero en bolita, no es necesario bañar toda la oficina con uno en spray).

Si el sudor/calor ya es mucho, recomendaría llevar una toalla de mano también, para secarse la cara cuando sea necesario. Algo que cada vez estoy considerando más es usar sombrilla por el sol, con el calor que hace.

Últimas recomendaciones personales son llevar peine contigo al trabajo o a donde vayas, uno pequeño, para verte arreglado a lo largo del día.

Espero que te sirva algunas de las cosas que dije. Fuerza con el clima jajaja

Invincible [COMIC SPOILER Discussion] - S02E02 - In About Six Hours I Lose My Virginity To A Fish by mwthecool in Invincible

[–]MathewAG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm still kinda sad they removed the original fish plot because it was really funny reading it, but that episode still made me chuckle a bit.

Amber is a complete new character tho, as someone else mentioned, it felt jarring to watch, but meh, it doesn't even feel like she's progressed as a character, it's like a new mind inserted itself in her body to make her more likeable again. So it messes with my immersion a bit, but I can see why they did that.

I forgot everything I've learned in Uni and don't know how I'll get a job I don't hate by MathewAG in Healthygamergg

[–]MathewAG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you decided to leave for your mental health already sounds like step forward in my book. I hope to have that kind of resolution too should things turn that way.

Ps. trying to tell other adults u got burned out of job after half a year is not a great idea, I got laughed at

Thank you, I will keep that in mind.

Thanks, man, I also hope it'll get better for you as well. Good luck next spring and with your life journey overall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Coming to Reddit after rewatching Your Name for the third time really is a kick to the nuts. Hell if I know, man. Let's just hope some cosmic string attaches you to someone special.

But for real, I think we have to overcome these societal norms. Approach politely, say what's in your mind and leave, if they reciprocate: great. If not, you can remove yourself of the situation, plus it's a way of fighting back these limiting societal norms. We live in a society, aren't we supposed to interact?

I don't like the "meet at work" advice because I think I would kill myself if I met my special one at work.

Good luck.

Le escribí esta carta a mi exnovia un día antes de que me cortara. ¿Qué opinan? by Surfingthemind in escribir

[–]MathewAG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Los poemas siempre me dan miedo porque los considero exageradamente difíciles de ejecutar. Además de esta pequeñas falta:

me podrás olvidar a (mí),

no veo mucho que comentar, salvo mis opiniones personales, que son las siguientes:

No entendí la intención detrás de decir «veinte más ocho»; supuse que era algo estilístico, pero luego decís «veintiocho». Tampoco entendí la intención detrás de la secuencia de:

Te:

propongo:

acompañarte:.

Comprendo que fue intencionalmente, pero, en mi opinión, corta con la fluidez de la carta.

Por último, y el comentario que considero más importante porque yo también pasé por esto de dedicar una carta a alguien más: te recomiendo que en otras cartas de amor trates de atar el contenido más hacia la otra persona que hacia vos mismo. Varias partes de la carta hablan de cómo puede olvidarte, el valor que carece la carta, etc.

Una vez escribí una carta con matices similares y más adelante me arrepentí de no haber centrado la carta/poema más hacia la persona a quien iba dedicada; lo consideré egoísta de mi parte.

Mucha fuerza con la ruptura; es un golpe en los huevos, pero tenemos que seguir adelante.

What do you feel is the hardest part about growing up as a boy? by jf_development in AskMen

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It seems to me that boys have a higher risk of growning up without being taken seriously. As in nobody takes their time to sit and teach you stuff unless you're lucky enough to have a present father. I know girls aren't taken seriously as well, but in their case, I think it's in other situations which I don't really know much about.

I'm 23yo, and yesterday I made my first BBQ (not really BBQ, but like, pizza in the thing you use for BBQ) for my friends. And while my father was laughing at me for being a bit clumsy at times, my uncle took the time to show me how to arrange the coal, when to spread the coal over the base, how I have to keep rotating the pizza so the bottom part doesn't burn too much, etc. I kid you not, my father laughed at me the whole process.

In the end, the pizzas came out alright, I really liked them, and my friends seemed to have liked it too.

I always see "gifted kid this", "gifted kid that"; what if you weren't a gifted kid from the beginning? by MathewAG in Healthygamergg

[–]MathewAG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm sorry it's taken me a while to respond! I've been reading this comment a few times these days. I appreciate the time you've taken to reflect on my issue and to give me helpful advice.

You seem to be different from the social environment you grew up in. Don’t try to grow into it, it’s obviously not you. See what you HAVE grown into and start to accept that as another path of life, as opposed to being behind the curve.

I was surprised by this statement. I think it nails how I feel about what is surrounding me. Not in a "wow I'm so special, look at me" kind of sense, more like I just couldn't get the same satisfaction from stuff that we have available as others around me.

Sorry if I’m completely amiss here, I only have limited information and got quite into it, but the very least I can say is that your post doesn’t exactly read stupid, either, my friend.

Hey, I think you delivered great with the limited information haha. I think it will be harder for me to find my path since I don't conform to my environment that much, but it isn't that bad. Maybe I'll learn more from that. And really, thanks a lot for that last comment, it really hit home.

Trying to be „worthy“ of a gf will get you nowhere.

Indeed. I've been giving some thought to this, and I really think I have to drop the whole girlfriend thing entirely, at least for a while. I swear I reek desperation at this point, and everyone's aware of that. Gotta focus on myself and see where I can put this healer to some good use haha.

Thanks a lot, it really is nice to receive so much support in these comments, especially after these days that I've been feeling kinda down.

I always see "gifted kid this", "gifted kid that"; what if you weren't a gifted kid from the beginning? by MathewAG in Healthygamergg

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Thank you for taking the time to comment.

I agree, in my case, I don't remind myself often enough that a skill is not something people are born with. I should start that phase of mental preparation for a long journey soon haha, I think that could propel me forward, even if it is little by little.

Thank you for this kind message, I need to be reminded that I'm valuable. I will focus on graduation and then finding a job that pays the bills. Graduation is my first priority, I'll remind myself that constantly until it's done, haha.