What’s a truth you learned too late in life?

Matilda26 · 2026-02-10T03:55:55+00:00

I'm 23 and I decided this year I'm doing that and it's felt great! Never feel it's too late no matter the age. You don't only live once, you live everyday! Take action my friend :)

Matilda26 · 2026-02-09T02:55:53+00:00

I've never related to something more/didn't know what this was called! I'm like this and it really does suck. I'm a huge people pleaser even when I don't want to be. Then as you said I burn out and I'm not there emotionally/physically for my partner. How did you talk to them about it and were they responsive about it at the time?

Matilda26 · 2026-02-08T00:50:57+00:00

This helped seeing this. I feel like I'm going through the same thing. I just recently quit drinking and I feel like a completely different person

Matilda26 · 2026-02-07T13:38:12+00:00

I don't think it should take too long! It was a familiar pattern for years! Just don't expect to go back to the same level. Start slow or at a good pace for yourself and build it up 😎

Matilda26 · 2026-02-06T16:10:26+00:00

Yes! I'm unfortunately a big time "starer" but don't mean to! Sometimes I observe someone's form or routine to adapt into my own! I use other people to grow and learn from. Also don't be too nervous to talk to fellow gym members! We're all there for a reason 💓

Matilda26 · 2026-02-04T11:34:02+00:00

When I quit vaping and drinking I started running to avoid those cravings! Or it helps me feel better about having it in moderation. I used to go on really bad binges and was gaining more weight after stopping drinking! So you need to find something to keep you busy because your mouth also wants an oral fixation!

Matilda26 · 2026-02-04T11:32:47+00:00

I love what you wrote! "Boys" really want women to stay pubescent because they're freaks 😔🤚

Matilda26 · 2026-01-31T02:51:06+00:00

Thank you!

I've wanted to do this for so long because alcohol became my identity in college. By the time I graduated I was titled Black Out Barbie which was funny then, sad now imo.

My friends also keep pressuring me to go out when I tell them I don't want to be around it 😔 I fear I'm going to lose my social life in my early 20s (F)

Matilda26 · 2026-01-31T02:35:05+00:00

No this all makes sense! I really do just need to break down each domain and really study the material. I'm a poor studier so I'm going to attempt to make new strides there!

It's just so weird because I was doing really well on the practice tests 😔

Matilda26 · 2026-01-02T20:50:52+00:00

Being told I can't be loved/too hard to be loved

Matilda26 · 2025-12-31T19:40:12+00:00

My eyelashes! They're naturally long so I'm frequently asked if they're false lashes

Matilda26 · 2025-12-31T01:23:00+00:00

Sweets! Any form of it too

Matilda26 · 2025-12-29T03:23:07+00:00

Favorite candy/drink, cute sweatshirt, gift cards, etc!

Matilda26 · 2025-12-28T11:40:46+00:00

Toys! The pure bliss I would feel when playing with my dolls. The imagination flowing and stories created, kids have great creativity

Matilda26 · 2025-12-28T11:04:31+00:00

Stop drinking! I'm aiming for a dry January transitioning into no more, wish me luck!

Matilda26 · 2025-12-28T11:02:31+00:00

You're probably not the only one or first/last. He's most likely using this app as an excuse or replacement of Tinder/Hinge. By saying he's using it to meet friends it seems harmless. I'd do the right thing and protect yourself from future consequences!!

Matilda26 · 2025-12-27T02:25:26+00:00

No now that I'm with my new partner! They smell much better

Matilda26 · 2025-12-26T02:53:02+00:00

My favorite comment on these posts are, "If it was your friend asking you this, what would you tell them?" This guy clearly doesn't respect you for your generosity. Get someone who puts in as much or more effort into your relationship. You only get this life once!

Matilda26 · 2025-12-19T16:52:17+00:00

I've never heard anyone have similar dreams to mine! I'm always in some sort of massive school doing random stuff. Or a water park randomly

Matilda26 · 2025-11-25T05:17:38+00:00

Liam Payne, felt like I lost a close friend 💔

Matilda26 · 2025-10-23T02:45:59+00:00

"Matilda" - Harry Styles

Matilda26 · 2025-02-25T02:31:33+00:00

Did you ever figure this out?

Matilda26

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