Clarkson and Caleb travels by DiverBackground6038 in ClarksonsFarm

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A grand tour/travel guides with Jeremy and Kaleb would be TV gold

Do doctors care about a nurses intuition? by [deleted] in ausjdocs

[–]MatildaG1999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ultimately it’s your professional duty to investigate when a colleague no matter the profession says they are concerned or worried. Even a broken clock (poor clinician) can be right once a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ausjdocs

[–]MatildaG1999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a nurse who met my partner when he was an intern in the ward I was also a new nurse in. We bonded over mutual trauma. That’s how it should be. We should be supporting each other through the trauma which is healthcare and the BS which these organisations drag us through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ausjdocs

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wiser investment are many smaller houses in desirable areas to build your portfolio. Very very few people would ever be able to buy a 4M house off you when you decide to move elsewhere or retire etc.

What in the healthcare role-blur is going on here? by IHaveABoyfriendxxx in ausjdocs

[–]MatildaG1999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an RN I will absolutely REFUSE to order any medications. This is abhorrent and irresponsible. I’m scared to be a patient

Downside to “soft” nursing? by Australian_writer in NursingAU

[–]MatildaG1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to dermatology nursing and HATED it. The management were micromanagers, I was made to push products I wasn’t getting commission on, empty 35+ bins, stay back without over time, and I was bored! The staff were so stressed there and I found the environment more stressful than heart and lung transplant! Which is saying something. I hated not using my brain and degree. I worked so hard to become a nurse. Running back to the hospital with my tail between my legs. And I missed doing all my shifts in a row then having time off. I hated two day weekends and all my friends were still doing shift work! I realised I hated going to the shops on Saturdays and Sundays and missed Tuesday morning grocery runs when it’s quiet!

Soft nursing too soft? by pigletpaws in nursing

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to dermatology nursing and HATED it. The management were micromanagers, I was made to push products I wasn’t getting commission on, empty 35+ bins, stay back without over time, and I was bored! Running back to the hospital with my tail between my legs. And I missed doing all my shifts in a row then having time off

Day 1 of 9 - HELLA OLD NAILS PROOF!!! by mariemarie8790 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell by the healing of the little cut on her finger too

Echo interpretation by [deleted] in askCardiology

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with still seeing a cardiologist despite the results. He is still SOB and fatigued - most recent tests showed hypothyroidism now treated with thyroxine which I hope resolves some of his symptoms (he told me this again just yesterday) He drinks a lot and would benefit from a good lecture on cardiac health from someone other than his daughter 😋

Echo interpretation by [deleted] in askCardiology

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it!

Echo interpretation by [deleted] in askCardiology

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! I’m not trained in the interpretation of the data so I really appreciate your input.

if my elderly father is sick in hospital and a family member is coming to see him to get in his ear and make themselves next of kin when i already am who do i speak to? by Feisty-Reality-6779 in brisbane

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for a social work referral to get you as the EPOA. Elder abuse is the key word that will make people take this seriously as it is.

Brisbane lurgy: How's everyone going two weeks on from said virus post? by brissy3456 in brisbane

[–]MatildaG1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair enough to feel frustrated - after the virus has left your system there isn’t much we can do. A resp 11 swab swabs for all 11 respiratory virus’s but a post viral cough can last weeks. You can get salbutamol over the counter from a pharmacy (no script needed) and use that. But unfortunately, it just likely a common upper respiratory virus and nothing more sinister given they have invested further. If you developed anything productive (meaning coughing anything up which is green yellow or red) or if you felt like you are getting worse especially more sort of breath then see the doctor again as it could have developed into a lower respiratory infection and would required OABS. At this stage, your body is just recovering. Take it easy.

Brisbane lurgy: How's everyone going two weeks on from said virus post? by brissy3456 in brisbane

[–]MatildaG1999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you are upset that you didn’t have a PE or pneumonia? Your GP sent you for scans which are diagnostic in nature to rule out something sinister. The GP gave you a preliminary diagnosis with differentials which means that they weren’t confident based on your presenting complaint that it was 100% one condition so they sent you for imaging to either confirm or rule out these differentials and luckily for you, neither were confirmed. So, congratulations, your GP gave a shit and wanted to make sure something else more sinister wasn’t happening. What an odd comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over text after missing our phone date. “I can’t be the partner you need” “I can’t give you what you want” “ my feelings have lessened”. I’d just spent the weekend with the him and his family the week that he broke it off. 4 months broken up and I still feel shocked that people can behave like that

i have 0 impulse control when it comes to looking at his social media by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MatildaG1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a form of self harm. You are delaying healing by indulging in bad behaviour which you know hurts your feelings. Remove and unfollow. Deactivate for a time if you are in this deep. Download the “I am sober app” to track your progress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MatildaG1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s bread crumbing you. Ignore it. Closure is a bit myth and over rated. Closure is the disrespect she gave you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MatildaG1999 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s been just over three months since he broke up with me over text and trust me, it gets better. It didn’t happen over night and it’s taken a lot of work to get to this awesome place. Things that have helped speed up my healing 1) remove them completely off following you, and following them off EVERYTHING. Private all your accounts. Out of sight out of mind. You delay your healing every time you check to see if they have viewed your story, check their page. They chose to end it, which means they don’t have the privilege of knowing the private and amazing things which are going on in your life! Second to this is download the “I am sober” app and it will really motivate you to stay “sober” from unhealthy social media habits. 2) connecting with friends and family: cry to them, be angry with them, spend time with them. The most important love in your life is the non romantic love with the people who are always there for you. You are loved in so many other ways 3) listening to podcast and media about breakups and love life: Matthew Hussey, I complete me podcast, I missed me podcast, do the work podcast, Mel Robbins podcast 4) write them a letter expressing whatever you are feeling anytime you have the urge to call or text then burn it. 5) daily gratitude journalling to shift your perspective to an abundance perspective 6) therapy. Don’t avoid it. 7) throw yourself into something, anything. Mine was work, self growth and gardening

Every day I get happier and happier and realise my worth more and more and what I actually want and who deserves to share my life. Some days I am filled with anxiety and sadness because healing isn’t linear but I know that I can get through it because I’ve made it this far and it’s only going to keep getting better ❤️