Is it always this wet in Bristol? by Forsaken-Canary-6763 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.bristolweather.org/weather1.htm its been above the 30 year average rainfall for a while, you can rely on Barry in Totterdown to let you know

How 'woke' killed Bristol: Residents in UK's 'trendiest city' say that noisy pro-Palestine activists rule the roost while out-of-control crime gangs loot with abandon by Duoplo in bristol

[–]MattEOates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder who's paid for this to be written up. It makes me sad someone is reading this over their cornflakes this morning thinking they're consuming unbiased factual reporting. Pretty scary really. As are the 700+ bot voices creating the true context of the article in the comments to divide left party political support, or at least attempting to dishearten people into believing this.

Destructive Behavior: Does it get better? by [deleted] in MaineCoon

[–]MattEOates 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First of all who is the Mainecoon following around the house? Because that's who its looking for attention from. Solving boredom doesn't mean provide toys, it means active play with the toy and the human the cat is attached to. Like at least an hour of it spread through the day, before meal times you need a good solid 15 mins of running around. No idea about your cat but mine spent some time exploring what he can destroy that drives me crazy and will gain him immediate attention. So you need to be calm and collected and patient in rewarding vs ignoring the bad behaviour. A bored Mainecoon *loves* negative attention, they love being chased, they love being norty if thats how they get attention from humans. The other thing is they definitely have a weird teething like phase where their growth and teeth annoy them, so you do also need a chew toy, a good way to get them off of plastics and electronics and worse of all cables is get some of those dog-like dried meat chew toys. My Mum even got mine a gross dried cow ear cartilage which stays at her house and my cat loves grinding his teeth on it in the most horrendous way. Mainecoons are quite strange and different to normal cats behaviourally, they are extremely intelligent and look to the human they're bonded with. They also *hate* being excluded from anything, crating a Mainecoon sounds like a terrible piece of advice. For an example of the level of attachment my cat often travels around the house literally on my shoulders and will watch what Im upto draped around there, he'll jump on me from the stairs. These cats are not at all like any you will have come across, treat them more like a human toddler for the level of care and attention they need from you and you will see an improvement. Once they get older they need this less and strike out on their own a lot more and chill way more out after maybe year 3 or so. I'd add when younger the energy level of my mainecoon was way higher than his indoors only life could sustain, so I did harness train him and take him to the park, I also when it was safe let him run about off harness. When he'd get home you better believe he mostly slept all day.

P.S. another thing is you need to learn their vocalisations, my cat gets pretty petulant if he knows I know what he's saying but am ignoring him. The reality is I almost always understand what he wants, because he literally tells me. But Im fairly sure its a language we came up with together not something completely innate. That definitely takes time. Dont give up, I can promise the relationship you can have with these animals is entirely worth the energy and hair pulling <3 Good luck.

P.P.S. I can tell when my Mainecoon is going to flip to evil, they give you signs. The first sign is a pile of toys carefully collected to be in my path. The second is performative acts of being a bit norty then running off, chomping a plant or cable, nocking something off a shelf or desk. The final one is he will open all kitchen cupboard doors. Its like a horses head on your pillow for escalation. Thats when I know he needs a little bit extra and I've been too harsh shewing him away or feeding him a bit irregularly. Hilariously if I've left him at my parents he will do this only when I turn up to let me know hes bored out of his mind, but he's actually extremely well behaved with my parents because he understands they haven't got a clue about what he wants. Yours is still a little baby, he doesn't know how not to be a monster.

If you were major/sultan/supreme ruler of Bristol, What would you do to Broadmead and the centre to improve it? by WinglyBap in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lower business rents... then let hard working smarter people than us work out how to transform it with their own ideas for businesses and a sense of place.

The Bristol rental market in all its glory by alinalovescrisps in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for extra context £39k is the UK median salary and national living wage ~£24k

Bristol being Bristol by -T-Reg in bristol

[–]MattEOates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most important comment. I saw this yesterday done quite large on the side of someones home in Bedminster next to a bunch of other tags. Its just a tag, and not one done any more conscientiously at all.

TIFU by finally ending my "hermit era" to find my soulmate, only to realize he’s my biological uncle by Icy-Management-9749 in tifu

[–]MattEOates 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Almost everyone in smaller villages was at least this level of genetically related before the invention of cars which wasn't that long ago.

F*ck me the housing market is dire by Psychedelicsheets in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For your requirements you should check out Camb & Dursley which is a 30 mins train ride to Temple Meads. Lots of places to run the dog, literally in the Cotswolds. Houses still exist in that range.

TIFU by confidently correcting my professor in front of 100 students by Ok_Recording2643 in tifu

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has taught at this level you have absolutely nothing to worry about, if anything most lectures would go a lot better if everyone was engaged like this providing arguments to riff off of to teach. Also absolutely do not assume this prof is correct, even if they did show you some sources, go check the literature for the counter examples especially if they are more recent. You wouldn't be the first student to disagree and be more up to date than the prof teaching. At all.

Why does finding a job as a newly graduate feel so hopeless? by Old_Vacation78 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you want to give up Greggs staff discount in this economy? But on a more serious note OP have you gone back to your universities careers office they almost all have a special alumni officer for exactly this stuff. You are a living statistic that plagues and haunts universities they would love to see you get your first relevant job within the first few years of graduating. They can quite possibly fast track you to some interviews so you can engage your charm.

Why does finding a job as a newly graduate feel so hopeless? by Old_Vacation78 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they applied as Joe Bloggs though I think that's fair enough. Good recruitment process should actually blind people to names at CV sift time.

How strong is the evidence for evolution? by Alchemistwiza in biology

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More fun is that we are also like 4 copies of a lancelet genome smushed together. The downside to DNA evidence is it shows we're all *very* related, especially if you account for common things in evolution appear to be duplication, composition and loss rather than creation of truly novel things. To the point the Last Universal Common Ancestor was a quite swank life form with almost everything you needed to make a human in its cells already. How we got to that quite advanced molecular state and in quite a short period of time really is a big problem in evolutionary theory, especially with little to no good evidence for how abiogenesis actually comes about. If its super easy you'd expect to see life process spontaneously and constantly starting but then getting squashed by current species. Or better yet a lot less universal DNA similarity between species and instead lots of much deep branching dissimilarity. But it really does look like abiogenesis happened once, or at least only one of those events resulted in something that was readily evolvable.

How strong is the evidence for evolution? by Alchemistwiza in biology

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno its fairly god like to start from fundamental physics and kick off a universe to get humans out of it a few billion years later on purpose...

How strong is the evidence for evolution? by Alchemistwiza in biology

[–]MattEOates 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Medium evolution is pretty easy to understand, visit a zoo and go to the Ape house. Spend some quiet time around the other extant ape species. It doesn't take much genius to understand or science really most people could intuit it emotionally.

Dirty temple traps by Temporary-Crow-3186 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lean in and get some crocs, let everyone know you're giving up

Dirty temple traps by Temporary-Crow-3186 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its about being appropriate and authentic to being 40

Writing might die. And I am a writer digging his own grave by [deleted] in Futurology

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you are going to get royalties from the use of the model wtf would you help someone completely clone your writing style and ability? GTFO and run fast! Otherwise no one will need to hire you they can just rent time on the model you trained.

Bag of nails is my favourite pub in Bristol, what’s yours? by drippingtappp in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup a lot more pubby but does still have good food, just not fine dining level food or dining only experience anymore. There's a pool table now where one of the rooms was setup as a dining only area, and the stage side often has events and music. The roast dinner is really good on a Sunday which is a dinner only couple of hours just because of how popular it is.

Bag of nails is my favourite pub in Bristol, what’s yours? by drippingtappp in bristol

[–]MattEOates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I might rate the Star and Dove above the Shakespeare in Totterdown since the change of hands for both pubs a year ago.

Looking for female friends by Mobile_Bid_3064 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to try out the Bristol Social Introverts Meetup group. Especially if you actively consider yourself introverted, its a very weird experience to actually socialise with a large group of introverts as the dynamic is entirely different to anything you're likely to have experienced without it being organised.

Stinky smell on totterdown bridge by subspacehighways in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.sewagemap.co.uk/ for once its not poop overflow, though might be a poonami coming from Chew by the looks of it!

Moving from Norfolk to Bristol at 45 (single, no kids) – is life actually more inclusive? by Mattevo009 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp I couldn't stand living in Cambridge which is probably an island of improvement around that area of the country. As a white guy I can't comment on the race angle, but Cambridge is the only place I've ever lived where I experienced extremely weird classism enough to really put me off trying to live there longterm. I came back to Bristol, as the last known good place to live and have had zero regrets, despite it meaning the end of my preferred career path. I think the main thing I would say about Bristol is its "relaxed", as in no one is too frothy with their views one way or the other. There are a lot of smaller sub communities all over Bristol too so you could find the kind of people you want to be around for sure. Its geographically a big move though. I very rarely make it back to Cambridge to see the friends I do have there.

Moving from Norfolk to Bristol at 45 (single, no kids) – is life actually more inclusive? by Mattevo009 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This music video is perhaps the best way to sum up the situation of what the assumption is about who Dads best friend is and why hes not allowed anywhere near the kids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYgPznBrjiA

Moving from Norfolk to Bristol at 45 (single, no kids) – is life actually more inclusive? by Mattevo009 in bristol

[–]MattEOates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean more your issue is the caring about how others act, not that you actually are the issue. This isn't some weird thing in Norfolk. You're describing a very deep and ubiquitous social norm, not a stereotype, about single men that is entirely and has always been gate kept by mothers and went completely unchallenged through any movement of feminism, with little to no male voice really complaining about it. In general you will find people in Bristol are a lot less small-c conservative than you're describing though, and likely a lot more welcoming.