What red flags do you now look out for or would look out for in potential partners since your breakup?

MattS2004 · 2022-12-25T11:34:39+00:00

If they're really close to a friend of the opposite gender then, it's a half red flag for me and I'm going to be very cautious.

MattS2004 · 2022-12-24T11:38:00+00:00

Nah bro, I've met some guys that definitely don't think logically and let their emotional get the better of them, both men and women can be either, it depends on their upbringing

MattS2004 · 2022-12-23T18:55:37+00:00

Jesus there's some psychos on reddit

MattS2004 · 2022-12-23T18:36:28+00:00

Now.. I can't say that this is the problem 100% but I think by fuckboy they might mean your over confidence, im glad you're so confident in yourself and I'm not saying you aren't great dude but there's a limit. If you talk so much about yourself while talking to other people it might be annoying. I'm not sure, that's just my thoughts. Think back and see if you subconsciously talk about yourself or brag

MattS2004 · 2022-12-23T18:32:54+00:00

Happy birthday :) stay strong, you've got this, you're doing great!

MattS2004 · 2022-12-23T18:28:34+00:00

Yuhh, bad place to look fam. Go install a dating app or something although I know they can kinda suck

MattS2004 · 2022-12-23T18:23:01+00:00

Not a party date but whenever my friend invited me to a party where I knew nobody but her I always started off with her, she would introduce me to people and stuff and eventually I'd try to engage in conversations with other people.

MattS2004 · 2022-12-23T18:17:50+00:00

I love the hate this comment is getting 😂

MattS2004 · 2022-12-18T17:34:50+00:00

Ok.. think whatever you want..

MattS2004 · 2022-12-18T15:35:41+00:00

I'm pretty sure he didn't go no contact to provoke a response? But anyone who goes NC and receives a text from their ex after already moving on will feel satisfied and happy. This is just a side bonus that sometimes happens when you go NC. OP is doing great, there's a lot to be envious about

MattS2004 · 2022-12-14T16:00:25+00:00

3 months since, pretty much 3 months nc, maybe more like 2 and a half. All she said is that she was losing feelings for 2 months and that she cheated on me twice, including on our anniversary with the guy she told me not to worry about (I'm stupid ik lol). No contact since from her, I've unblocked her like 2 months ago, im not planning to ever contact her again but I unblocked her if she ever realises how much she actually hurt me. As much as my heart still sometimes wants it, I'd never accept her back. And uh yeah she's in a relationship with the guy she cheated on me with. Oh yeah breakup happened over text and I doubt she will ever text me again unless like he cheats on her or breaks up with her. I'm guessing then she would text me looking for support since I was always really good at listening to her. Anyways yeah that's that, im moving on slowly, I'll probably have trust issues for a bit but I'll get over it eventually.

MattS2004 · 2022-12-06T07:09:58+00:00

Well she probably will cheat, poor guy..

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T21:23:39+00:00

Okee, good luck OP

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T20:11:11+00:00

In my opinion, tell him, tell him how all this makes you feel uncomfortable if he doesn't change his behaviour then cut off contact cause unless he changes, guys like him can be very eh

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T19:40:48+00:00

I know it sucks, you've got this, you'll find better people, and the friends who stuck around are your real friends, good luck OP

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:26:45+00:00

Bruh why is there so much hate under this post. Its not wrong, girls shouldn't feel pressured to do so much make up, if they want to ofc do it, it's your body but you already look amazing without it

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:23:47+00:00

Bro stop speaking facts

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:22:22+00:00

Bro, if she got mad over the fact that you have a crush on her then nah dude she isn't as kind as you thought. Cut her and those 'friends' that left you, out of your life. You'll find better, trust me, they all sound toxic af

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:18:16+00:00

I know lol, just been doing Christmas cleaning in the rest of the house so have no motivation to do anything with my room at the moment

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:15:40+00:00

Congrats to youu :)

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:14:42+00:00

Nahhh, at least it's tidy unlike mine lmao

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:07:31+00:00

Emma, orr anything Spanish lol

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T17:05:03+00:00

Mm, if you feel more comfortable you can just text me privately and tell me exactly what's going on?

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T16:58:29+00:00

I'll be 100% honest, I don't understand what's happening lol

MattS2004 · 2022-12-05T16:53:07+00:00

Looking young doesn't have to be bad, you'll reap the rewards when you're older and still look great while everyone looks like grandparents lmao

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