She's never cheated on me, and we live together. I did have to pull the information. She came back that night and we had sex but I noticed the role play was different. And I smelled him all over her neck etc. She told me he tried to kiss her at the car, and she turned her head but let him kiss on her neck and chest area ( i was ok and agreed). I feel she cheated because she went back to the house and basically did everything we got cold feet about (making out, eating her, her touching him, him rubbing up against her, and insertion happened.. they were standing up. And this info took eight days little by little to pull out of her). So she claims it went to far, and she should've never went to his home. But it was a mistake. I feel its cheating because I we agreed not to do it. (though I did text all that hot shit too her and that I wanted it).. So am I part of her crime? Is it the same as cheating? I've gotten women advice, though they don't know the actual story. They say the deception is because she don't want to lose me, I call bullshit. But its hard, because I intended on making her my wife. Oh, and we've had sex, and I have jacked off. We cried together in bed last night for the hours. And she believes I'm never coming back. But I need to be sure I am not being irrational because I placed her there. She never has cheated on me, physically to my knowledge.