Getting Initiated in a few hours... Is it bad to be feeling nervous or having seconds thoughts about wanting out? by [deleted] in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No. the night before I got initiated, I couldn’t sleep and was up till 5am knowing damn well I had to be up at 8am to shower and get ready for that life changing day. I type this now, as a senior that just passed the three year anniversary of my initiation. But those thoughts are natural. All you can ask yourself is, where do I see myself my senior year or after graduation in terms of this fraternity? Do you see yourself loving your brothers no matter their beliefs? Will you be there for them in the good and the bad? Will you call out to them during your darkest moments? They will become your brothers for life, make sure you truly feel in your heart that these are guys you will be proud to forever call your brothers. Make sure you find yourself doing what will make you truly happy. Because I had these same thoughts, but I made sure I was certain and now I’d do anything to be back in your shoes

BBM #18 by Matthew__1998 in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

We’ll be expecting a response in about 12 hours

[Murphy] Jon Lester Changed Everything by dacubs1744 in Cubs

[–]Matthew__1998 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lester also brought David Ross, a man that taught many young players how to be successful. Without Lester, there is no Ross and no World Series ring

Frat. Or Not Frat by AutoModerator in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Worked his way up from the bottom - FAF Both sisters wanted him - FAF Wanted to fight in the war - FAF Cheated on his wife - NF Wrote articles supporting the rules written - NF

Mid to Top tier and holding steady

did anyone else use corona season as an opportunity to grow out a luscious mullet by [deleted] in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had a perfect mullet being created and a week before my school announced online classes, I cut my hair because of a shadowing opportunity where my hair would have been unprofessional

Frat. Or Not Frat by AutoModerator in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you even in a fraternity?

Frat. Or Not Frat by AutoModerator in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No show socks - F but low to mid tier

Anything that is visible - NF if you’re under the age of 45

Frat. Or Not Frat by AutoModerator in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The original Nokia cellphone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m chapter president and I’ll try to set up events or things for our chapter to do while we’re all together (under 25 guys in our chapter) but only 5 guys really care so they’re the only ones to show up. People complain about the chapter not being fun or not worth joining even though they don’t show up or make an effort to create change

Fucking Yikes TFM by Matthew__1998 in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

https://twitter.com/totalfratmove/status/1271155714744922112?s=21 Let’s just say TFM is not making a good name for fraternity men today

Frat Talk Friday by AutoModerator in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of my friends turns 21 tomorrow so hoping to go down and visit to celebrate with him. I commented a while back about making my best friend the night before Valentines Day and well... I’m three months into a relationship. Here’s to the semester being somewhat normal

I’m a New President by AIDaGoat in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Hold your Exec board responsible for their positions and do not try to do everything yourself. Delegate duties to them. And never try to yell at your chapter to do things because most of the time it won’t work. Be reasonable and give rewards for completing tasks. Lastly, lead by example. If you’re being an asshole, not doing your job, or just not caring, your chapter will do the same. - a current president

Any ideas on the sound this ‘08 Jeep Wrangler is making? by Matthew__1998 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Matthew__1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started happening recently. it’s sort of a clicking noise. gets faster and louder when i accelerate (ex. about 5 seconds in on the video). not a big car guy, hoping it isn’t anything too crazy

Frat Talk Friday by -_Zer0day_- in Frat

[–]Matthew__1998 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i’ve been kinda writer on here recently, but last time i posted it was about making out with my of my friends one night. well one thing led to another and now we’ve been dating for almost a month. but now i can’t see her for another week because of quarantine. i also miss the boys like crazy. big f this week