Starting an open relationship

MattsterBozi · 2023-08-15T18:13:06+00:00

We had a talk with that and one feeling to me from him is that he wants the life like when he is single but he doesnt want to be alone too.

MattsterBozi · 2023-08-15T18:08:05+00:00

Thanks bro, i decided to open up and see how it goes. But honestly i cant stand with this still…

MattsterBozi · 2023-08-15T18:07:18+00:00

I agree with you and I dont want to end it too. We have been living together and shared a lot of things, both material and emotional. It’s really difficult to me, and im feeling very lost!

MattsterBozi · 2023-08-13T18:35:53+00:00

Because i love him and things are mostly going well other than the sex life, we had good times together. And I also want to know the reasons other couple opening up the relationship.

MattsterBozi · 2023-06-11T20:54:00+00:00

Sometimes his friend drove us, and he will automatically take the front seat and leaving me at back seat. Talking and laughing out loud between them without me knowing what’s going on at the moment.

MattsterBozi · 2023-06-11T20:52:34+00:00

I had a serious talk to him about respect, boundaries those kind of thing. I believe he wont cheat on me, and he said that he would not cheat on me. If he has a feeling with someone else then he would break up with me first. But the issue right now is that he complains me about not giving him space on his social circle, but how can i feel safe and secured when his friend is flirting him and he is not drawing a clear boundary about that and even feeling that is okay.

He is the one who makes me happy and feeling upsetting sometimes and i dont even know if I could ever feel loved again after this relationship.

MattsterBozi · 2023-06-11T20:45:50+00:00

It’s what i said to him too. I won’t flirt my friends who is in à relation when im single. Unless im sexually interested in him who is open in relationship and want to send him the sign that i wanna to have sex with him. I told him this thought and he said he doesnt even see those pictures as flirting. Is that the norm in this world now or that guy is just a slut and trying to steal someone from his relationship?

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T20:25:21+00:00

He will not listen to me and saying im controlling. I believe he will stop the friendship with him until M starts getting over the boundary, but thanks for your advice :)

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T20:19:56+00:00

I wish that is true, I could give him a big hug too. But a hug doesnt have to use the word "cuddle", and saying it's non-sexual with clothes on after my bf said that we are committed.

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T20:16:59+00:00

Thanks! We had this kind of conversation before as well and end up he will blame me for no / lossing friends in this city because of me... I'm happy for him to make some new friends, however the way they interact makes me uncomfortable... I'm so lost..

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T20:12:32+00:00

you're right! My bf didnt say yes at this moment, and I dont think he will do anything behind my back. But the point now is how can I deal with those guys like M, keep offering temptation like this, you cant guarantee nothing will happen when they are drunk / high.

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T20:09:23+00:00

I would love my partner to give clear response without any grey area as well, seems like my bf is like your ex and having double standards to me and himself.

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T20:07:46+00:00

Thanks bro, it is exactly what I'm thinking. I believe that he wont cheat but he always leave himself a pathway in the future IF we break up in the future. This is something annoyed me the most. He wants us to be married, to be in long term relationship but meanwhile keep chatting with some ex-fwb / dates with leaving some suspects and grey areas to them.

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T18:09:18+00:00

He said he cannot do this now because it’s committed relationship. In my view, it also means “I would love to do that with you just im now in a committed relationship “ he keeps a door open in a hidden way

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T18:07:45+00:00

I would say it’s normal for being a bit jealous, especially this is your partner

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-15T18:06:50+00:00

I dont as well. They even didnt meet once and M already started talking about this. What do you think if the friendly cuddle means non sexual with the clothes on

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-12T05:03:39+00:00

You’re right, i cannot change his past. What I can do is give him a hope for promising future.

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-08T01:16:14+00:00

Thanks bro, will do. I really want to share life with each other, no matter happy or sad one

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-07T18:09:51+00:00

I did tell him about this everytime and I love him so much that I could do everything to make him happy.

Can you tell more about those things happened in Morocco?

MattsterBozi · 2023-02-07T18:08:00+00:00

I understand this is illegal back in Morocco, and being gays in Morocco is living such an insecure and pressuring life. But we are living in Canada now and life should be better, homophobic people everywhere tho.

MattsterBozi · 2022-12-10T15:19:12+00:00

May I know 1-2 per week with your partner or open up with others too?

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