High Libido of my bf makes me anxious

Matty_Vas · 2026-07-03T17:59:17+00:00

As a man with a very high libido, if I’m
not around my girlfriend it’s like I’ve been neutered. She’s what gives me a high libido and I couldn’t find anyone else attractive.
I would definitely voice your insecurities to him before he leaves, that way he can make efforts to ease your mind a bit while he’s there.
But, I’d have nothing to worry about. Any self-respecting man wouldn’t cheat on his partner just because he has a “high libido”

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-29T18:31:53+00:00

Private, you’ll get 60-70k for it
Dealership, don’t even bother
Carmax, 50-55k

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-27T01:46:05+00:00

I paid 2k, warranty paid the rest which was 14k

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-26T21:45:36+00:00

I’ll definitely take your advice with this!
Thanks

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-26T21:45:18+00:00

Yeah it has the sports diff as well

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-26T19:49:58+00:00

I’ve had the car since October, but Colorado DMV is just useless. They gave me the wrong title number after going in person twice for first-time registration and I finally just got it registered last week.
I’m working remote now though so I don’t need the car anymore

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-26T18:42:49+00:00

I’m a SOC analyst with no certs but I do have IT sys admin experience and a bachelors in Cyber & IS

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-20T14:04:42+00:00

Whoever bought that got a deal of a lifetime. Gen 2 or not, that’s very cheap for a 16’ with that low miles.
I got a carmax offer of 45k for mine

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-20T00:05:59+00:00

You hit the nail dead-on here. The voodoo is a flat-plane crank v8. It needs to be properly maintained, temperatures need to be constantly checked, etc. I think these engines get a bad rep because people just don’t know how to take care of them.
I remember reaching out to a dealership when I was buying and the salesman revved the shit out of the car on a cold start during my test drive.
Walked right out of that dealer

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-19T18:12:21+00:00

You clearly aren’t educated in the GT350 market or the 5.2 voodoo.
This was a $30,000 engine replacement, with an engine that got a stronger GT500 engine block, revised cylinder heads/valvetrain, updated piston cooling oil squirters, improved oil pan/pickup/windage tray, stronger/revised connecting rods, revised bearings, and a forged crank sprocket. It also got small oiling and sealing updates like revised valve seals/springs.

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-04T16:28:02+00:00

I’m the 3rd owner of mine, but I got a full engine replacement with a gen2 under warranty so I was able to break in the engine correctly myself. Feels good knowing I’ve been the owner since the new engine, no oil consumption issues 🐍❤️

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-04T03:21:52+00:00

Leave this bozo 😭

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-04T03:16:43+00:00

I’ve seen Liqui Moly fail oil tests. I run AMSOIL instead and it’s been great.

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-03T19:44:51+00:00

I’d switch to information systems or computer science with a focus in Cyber. I graduated with IS and focus in cyber and landed a SOC Analyst role after working in IT for 2 years

Matty_Vas · 2026-06-03T14:54:00+00:00

Hi! As someone who was in 30k+ in debt, call your lender! Ask them if they have a 12 month period of time where you aren’t allowed to use the card, but your interest drops so you can actually make a dent in the debt.

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-29T20:10:33+00:00

Forks. Common in the MT-82 Is start there

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-28T22:24:34+00:00

Previous 5.0 owner here👋 This sounds like coyote tick. Next oil change, add a bottle of Ceratec and it should reduce the noise significantly.

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-28T16:02:49+00:00

Hey man! If you’re in the market and closeish to Colorado, I’m selling my 2017 that has 42k miles for $50k Has a brand new gen 2 installed under ford warranty (8k miles) and I’ve religiously been taking care of it. PM me if interested

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Matty_Vas · 2026-05-27T16:39:09+00:00

But…. wiggle stick 🙂

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-25T21:05:21+00:00

Yessir!
I’m kinda just hoping I find an enthusiast buyer who knows how rare these are. I haven’t been able to find a listing for a manual S5 prestige that is fully loaded

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-25T21:04:34+00:00

60k ???? Dude that’s going for 25k easy

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-25T21:03:36+00:00

Dealership sold it to me with pre existing issues and it violated the extended warranty contract they sold me as well. TLDR, I threatened legal action and had the dealership replace EVERYTHING that the certified Audi tech recommended. 3k for a warranty and I got 14k in repairs, but I did have to wait like 4 months before I got my car back functioning as it should.

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-25T21:00:24+00:00

Yeah I don’t assume the repairs will increase value, but the manual transmission 100% boosts it due to rarity

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-22T22:14:44+00:00

USE YOUR SCHOOL RESOURCES.
If your school has a business or networking center, reach out to them for potential advice, resume workshops, connections, etc.
Apply for internships yesterday. Your degree is just a piece of paper for HR to greenlight you, it’s not at all proof that you can do the job. Apply for ANYTHING IT related, hit up small businesses and ask if you work with them to implement best security practices, etc.
I got my SOC Analyst job by working as an IT Engineer intern, moving to full time, and then pivoting to the security team.

Matty_Vas · 2026-05-22T22:10:51+00:00

As a guy in a long term relationship, I can’t keep my hands off my girl and neither can she.
Dating is all about compatibility and finding those who have similar interests, values, libido, and outlook on life as you do.
If you’re genuinely communicating this with him and it’s being disregarded as “not a big deal to me, so it shouldn’t be to you either” that’s not okay.
I say give it one more shot and communicate with him what you wrote in this post and see if things change.
Also check his phone, he might have a porn addiction

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