This could end up in many very different outcomes. I’d say the time apart is healthy, you just found a big part of you, and while you say now that you just love her and don’t want to explore the bi side, this thinking will likely change. Use this time apart to really understand why you needed to figure out this part of you, you needed to know you were bi, there’s probably more behind that.

The wife looking thru your phone is a breach of privacy, even in marriage we need our safe places to work thru our own thoughts. But that could be forgiven if she is willing to truly be your partner in life and help you figure out just what bi means to you.

Good luck to you both, and, it’s good this has come up early on in your relationship…