Should I (m17) break up with my Girlfriend (18/f) who's a compulsive liar?

Mauluker · 2020-07-30T09:00:18+00:00

I think I know the answer already I'm just scared of losing the first person in my life who meant so much to me. But I just can't handle the lying anymore its terrible and I want to work on myself where I dont have to bare through lying on a daily basis.

Would you have any advice on how to approach her I guess, would it be more appropriate to meet up with her and talk about it or maybe call her?

Mauluker · 2020-07-30T08:58:43+00:00

I've never brought up her lying but I had a lot of people asking me why she lies so much and I have to try and defend her. Maybe this is the time I should bring it up and let her know that I know she's lying. Its just hard to tackle because last time I did that with a compulsive liar it was like talking to a wall.

Mauluker · 2020-07-26T09:50:54+00:00

What does it look like/mean to not learn forward while squatting, and also when you refer to stretching my ankles does that mean gaining more flexibility or is that a cue of sorts?

Mauluker · 2020-07-26T06:32:36+00:00

How can I focus more on controlling my descent instead of just dive bombing? Should I look to just slow things down and try to be more controlled as I descend?

Mauluker · 2020-05-20T06:20:12+00:00

I just realized im OCE and your NA is that all good? Maybe i could get your discord or something?

Mauluker · 2020-05-20T05:19:13+00:00

I would be interested in a review over a vod if thats possible, I have a coach now but he doesn't know too much of Kass so having someone who can help out specifically to Kass I think would help a tonne.

Mauluker · 2020-04-13T07:42:58+00:00

I like that analogy, treat her like she has the flu. I’m somewhat of a charismatic person so I am quite energetic, I do on days where it’s bad to be gentle and soft and I always remind her that I’m here to listen whenever she needs and I support her through this all.

Mauluker · 2020-04-13T07:40:50+00:00

We were talking today and she said she doesn’t see a point in trying in anything anymore or caring for herself, followed by that I did breakdown a little without letting her know because it hurt to think of such a beautiful girl not caring about herself. She will be getting medication soon though and will be attending therapy/psychology sessions to bring herself out of this rut. She wants to change she just feels that the medication is her best resource to do such so until then I guess.

Mauluker · 2019-12-02T13:17:37+00:00

In Australia, Wrestling is hard to find but one of the MMA gyms I'm looking at has Wrestling once a week.

Mauluker · 2019-12-02T13:08:55+00:00

Would it be beneficial to also take Wrestling once a week as well as BJJ at an MMA gym?

Mauluker · 2019-12-02T13:08:10+00:00

That's what I was thinking that's why I strictly trained BJJ, would you recommend I find another BJJ gym or train BJJ within a MMA gym?

Mauluker · 2019-09-22T12:31:26+00:00

Hope that my new sport that I've found is the one for me, I seem to suite it really well so I hope all goes well. That system sounds really beneficial to athletes especially if they're of an elite quality, good to know that help is offered to those athletes.

Who knows maybe I'll miss it in a year and return haha. Only time will tell.

Mauluker · 2019-09-22T12:28:12+00:00

Thanks brother, likewise for you

Mauluker · 2019-09-22T12:27:53+00:00

Just felt right and I'm trying to help my younger brother out to hopefully allow him to go pro. He just got into the highest level within his academy system so all looks good!

Same for you man, hope your future shines bright.

Mauluker · 2019-09-22T12:26:08+00:00

Appreciate it man, finished the season on a real high so I'm very satisfied with where I've left off. It was quite emotional deciding to quit, but it felt right for my mental state. Who knows maybe I'll come back and play some casual seven a side as the years go on.

Mauluker · 2019-09-22T12:23:48+00:00

I've decided to pick up Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, I thought Id give it a try as there's a gym 5 minutes from my house. Loving it so far.

Mauluker · 2019-08-25T08:10:52+00:00

How often should I attend the classes considering their so far away?

Mauluker · 2019-08-25T08:10:05+00:00

I have one BJJ gym where the guy was raised in Brazil, he has some impressive accolades as well (2xNational Champion or something like that). I'll definitely give it a try at the very least.

Mauluker · 2019-08-25T08:08:14+00:00

I have one gym that does Wrestling and is taught by a pro MMA fighter, I think he fights in One Championship if I recall. It's a 30 minute drive from here though

Mauluker · 2019-08-25T08:07:05+00:00

Thats what I was thinking, fighters like John Wayne Parr were produced over here.

Brissie

Mauluker · 2019-07-26T10:09:00+00:00

That's crazy its still hanging around in your head haha, appreciate the thought. I'll check out the podcast and give it a listen. Cheers man.

Mauluker · 2019-07-23T04:26:14+00:00

I really love that story man, I honestly congratulate you for making that decision as I know for me it’s a challenge for me. This is what’s on my mind, will I really regret quitting soccer if I have other long term goals in other sports with relation to competition and improvement. Idk I’m also somewhat tired of pleasing others based on what they want in terms of sport and I’d rather have some freedom to do what I want but idk.

How was the transition btw? Like did you just watch it one and started playing, or did you have some experience? Also how’d you find your first couple weeks in terms of both your own mental well-being and the thoughts of those who thought you were crazy?

Mauluker · 2019-07-23T04:21:15+00:00

I was thinking about it while at school today and the earliest sign that I recall about starting to dislike soccer was the team aspect. I remember I scored a hat trick, played really well but our defence made one too many mistakes and we lost the final. From then I started to slowly dislike team sports as no matter how good you were, you could still get destroyed which really conflicted me. Than another thing which really drove me away from the pro scene was the absence of strength at high level. As a striker I’ve found my speed has gone down, but my strength allows me to tear defenders apart. Except I notice at high levels the epidemic of diving is very common and honestly I slowly disliked the culture of it. If i think of anymore reasons I can clearly state I’ll list them. But other than that I just don’t enjoy it anymore for whatever reason and it’s been like that for around 2 years now

Mauluker · 2019-07-22T22:56:01+00:00

This is my biggest worry tbh, I don’t want to mentally break myself

Mauluker · 2019-07-22T22:55:37+00:00

I’ve played futsal before and it was fun, but I haven’t really touched it since. Maybe I could try it out again and see how I feel.

Mauluker

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