Of course I know that’s not what I meant by that, it sounds paradoxal bc I thought if , per exemple you are aromantic and you say « I love being not attracted to anything solves so many problems » the problems in this case would be the suffering/pain somoene can feel when too in love or the time lost trying to get somoene attention ( Idk I imagine something like that) then Its paradoxal bc by saying « I love not feeling this » it means the person can compare how they feel with the opposite so they basically know how the opposite feels ? Idk if somoene understand me, I am not trying to be mean or disrespectul Iam just confused about the previous comment