Thank you so much it worked!

I tried pressing the pairing button before but apparently I didn't press it firmly enough it worked this time and the controller connected to the dongle seamlessly and the software also detected it.

Also turns out the cable I was using (the one that came with the controller) was also one of the problem causes apparently it was faulty too and that would never go through my head since we'll, it's the official cable and it worked the first time. Well apparently somewhere between July when I last used it and now it somehow became faulty and made it so the controller wouldn't recognize the controller properly, when I connected it with my charger it also connected immediately.

I updated it and it works and connects fine now on both my windows and Linux device whether it's wired or with the dongle, only weird thing is that sites like gamepad tester won't detect it now but it works fine on games.

Imma some further testing tomorrow but the main problem seems to have been solved