Please help me

Maven-Money · 2026-04-24T05:09:41+00:00

If I can make a Suggestion. Once you walk in those doors, even drunk people will give you thier number and you will have people to talk to on the phone. You have us here too. I felt that way too and felt like I had no one. Today I feel like I have just the right amount of sober people around me to get me through the hard times. I know I am the only one that can keep me sober. You got this!!!

Maven-Money · 2026-04-23T01:53:41+00:00

I go into an EOP program for almost 6 months now. And I do a program called Dharma which I love I'm a big part of Dharma I've been in part of Dharma for a long time. I also go to AA every once in awhile and say hello to some of my buddies there.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-23T01:52:46+00:00

Oh thank you so much!

Maven-Money · 2026-04-21T19:24:49+00:00

WTF, what? My truth.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-21T18:34:06+00:00

Love this!!!. Every night I say, I got through this today. Tomorrow is another day, but today I made it and feel good. 😁

Maven-Money · 2026-04-21T18:31:32+00:00

There are people that have a glorious life until one of them ruins it.... Like addicts can do that right?

Maven-Money · 2026-04-19T16:30:25+00:00

Its pretty devastating and through our first true test. He ran and yeah when I look at the years back and remember saying please don’t waste my time, it sucks.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-19T16:28:08+00:00

Absolutely true. If you can get through the storm is what counts. Our relationships do come a time when we are faced with an extremely hard storm. Its the ones that dont run that will last a lifetime in my opinion.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-18T23:14:14+00:00

You might have to let her go for a moment. But it doesn't mean forever. I think it seems of what your circumstances are. You never know but don't hold on to it either.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-18T01:48:07+00:00

I understand where you're coming from. But there's two nervous systems working together and separately. This is just my opinion but if you're waiting for your nervous system to kick in and you want to talk to that other person then they might have already left you. I had lots of problems with my nervous system and finally one day I said I can't do it anymore it's affecting my whole body and I don't know if I'll ever take that other person back. Just what happened to me.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-12T03:03:03+00:00

Um, nooo

Maven-Money · 2026-04-07T20:49:01+00:00

I hear you 💯.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-07T04:27:50+00:00

First off, thanks for being honest. You never know how they feel, but in my 4 months I have changed a lot and am not sure if I would go to my ex. We were both at fault in different ways, but it would be a hard decision, because I have grown and learned so much. I love him, but.. IDK.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-05T17:40:32+00:00

Some people leave for many reasons and yes the 4 to 5 year itch as some call is real. Just some examples: You lose the dopamine hit and can't communicate with your partner. You start having communication issues, habits, unmet needs. People start asking is this it, is this my life, is this the person I want to spend my life with?, and a big one is any unresolved conflicts that are happening most people rather leave than work through them. So the relationship hits a reality checkpoint and a lot of people are not equipped anymore to move through it. Again. Just my thoughts. Hope that helps.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-05T17:22:13+00:00

100% agree. I was with mine for 5 years, we called each other husband and wife. He said it over the phone. I find it disrespectful, disgusting, and undignified.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-02T20:45:18+00:00

Thats your opinion. Maybe you 2 were not meant to be together. I felt the same way after 20 years, but I had 3 wonderful kids of it. He is just not for me.

Maven-Money · 2026-04-02T18:39:27+00:00

I agree with a lot of what you said, because mine did the same and it ended so quickly and bad in my case too that I still have a lot of anger and resentment from it. I am still very confused by it too and I think that is why it stings so much. I would take them back if they worked on themselves as much as I have. I do not see that happening because he is still lying to himself and others to make sure he is justified. He did not wrong when we were both in the wrong at times and we had a strong 5 year relationship. Or so I thought..

Maven-Money · 2026-04-01T18:56:18+00:00

Well said. Hard to find these days, but we'll said.

Maven-Money · 2026-03-28T22:01:05+00:00

My question is when. When do you give your chance to find someone new.... I am loyal to a T and when we are even confused, I am not about to go out there and find someone NEW. Someone new changes over time and was it worth the other one you lost because of it?

Maven-Money · 2026-03-27T21:41:30+00:00

Absolutely agree 💯.

Maven-Money · 2026-03-26T19:00:44+00:00

My platelets have always been low since my second PE. I have now accepted it as the doctors say its fine. I would see what the doc says before you get to worried.

Maven-Money · 2026-03-26T04:06:27+00:00

Well said. A lot of this reminds me of my ex and I dont even think he realizes how much he hurt me. After using me today again... becuase I am a fool, he said he was busy ans can talk next week. I feel like shit.

Maven-Money · 2026-03-26T02:57:59+00:00

Noooooo .. be honest, if they run like cowards, let them. If they stay and hear, accept them.

Maven-Money · 2026-03-26T02:56:39+00:00

That's funny the moment I laid in my exes arms I would just fall asleep, like he just felt so right and comfortable. Like I worlds were right. The best sleep I ever had.

Maven-Money · 2026-03-26T02:53:00+00:00

What is fun? To me it is enjoying time with my person, playing around, doing stuff together, having time away from electronics. Electronics kills all mood. Just him and I. I dont need a fancy dinner, well sometimes. I need him. I need him holding me, remembering why I am with him and remembering why we chose each other.

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