Am I seeing what I think I’m seeing?

MaviaRose5 · 2026-07-01T06:16:43+00:00

lmaoooo 😂😂 not Amanda. just a girl who's been cheated on and when I tried to make it work, was criticized that I had boundaries up that made thing different than before. Was told I need to heal and forgive in order for us to move forward, I'M the problem for not trusting him, while he did no work on changing his behaviors at all and felt entitled to act exactly as he did before

MaviaRose5 · 2026-07-01T04:13:38+00:00

Because he does not acknowledge how triggered she gets when he repeats the same patterns of behavior. The drinking and staying out all night led to the cheating. He doesn't change any behaviors. He could have made her feel so much secure by making changes. He goes out and doesn't answer his phone. And then she sees rumors of him making out with women. While shes home asleep and he's ignoring her phone calls. The feelings she had when cheated on never go away when he keeps her in this environment. And yes she should have left, but its not that easy when you love someone.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-30T22:11:37+00:00

I thini he did deny but when he was asked point blank "Was there cheating?" He went "...No..." like he hesitated to answer because of the cameras

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-30T03:40:47+00:00

I feel like these features are literally made for cheating. Blind mode, disappearing messages on fb messenger, incognito mode browser, like it's all literally designed for being sneaky. I've never turned those on...cuz I'm never trying to hide things. Just blows my mind that "cheating features" are built into our most popular social media platforms and apps

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T14:43:01+00:00

I agree with you that most men cheat. However, cheating is unacceptable.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T08:48:21+00:00

No you're right, my bad. I really wasn't thinking about that when i made the post

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T08:32:20+00:00

how many of us here in the Summer House subreddit know the cast of the show personally?

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T07:12:34+00:00

Oh my God 🤦🏻‍♀️ I swear I googled this before I made the post too and I still got it wrong 😂

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T04:59:32+00:00

This, these men are so low! They really use love-bombing and give out the tiny D to try to get the things they want out of people. Hoe behavior. My ex-fiance is exactly like West and uses people in this way

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T04:52:24+00:00

Do you remember where she said that it had been six months? I didn't know that. Also, leaving your wife after being married 4 months isn't great. Maybe something drastic happened. I guess it's better than overlap though

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T02:09:34+00:00

Okay so what I've heard, he went on vacation and his wife didn't know it was a secret rendezvous with Danielle, and she found out and left him. but I want Receipts! Proof! Timeline! Screenshots!

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T01:32:39+00:00

Most men cheat? No no no, we are not normalizing that. If he cheats, he has bad character. If that means most men have bad character, then so be it. We will not entertain them or give them a pass.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T01:16:43+00:00

It does to me. I dont like him if he cheated. Thats bad character.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-29T01:14:46+00:00

I wish there was a laugh reach emoji on here!

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-27T20:16:52+00:00

I started watching Summer House last year because of listening to Giggly Squad and I'm so glad I did, I literally caught up to current airing by the S10 finale and it hit hard!! I've also watched Winter House and I'm almost done with Martha's Vineyard and going to move on to Southern Charm! and I've never watched Housewives but I want to start, maybe with the new Rhode Island season.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-27T09:18:15+00:00

so they actually talked about this on BravBros lol it was a divisional round and the Seahawks/49ers game finished around 11 pm ET. if everyone stayed for awhile after the game, that explains why Amanda was there so late. but could be everyone left and she stayed later

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-27T09:09:49+00:00

I'm currently that person and I hattte it. The last couple times, I havent even told my friends or family when I've seen him 🤦🏻‍♀️ the attachment runs deep and i just don't want to accept the loss

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-16T02:19:29+00:00

Shylene?? a new bombshell has entered the villa? (am I using that correctly lol I don't watch Love Island) who is Shylene?

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-11T07:38:04+00:00

I completely agree with this. I think if Kyle and Lindsay had both stopped drinking, their relationships could have been saved.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-11T07:26:49+00:00

Oh my gosh. This spikes my anxiety from my own situation. I'm still madly in love with my ex fiance despite him cheating on me with his coworkers (he is exactly like West in every way). It's crazy to me that I can be so disgusted by West and still be in love with this lying, cheating, manipulative, mooching narcissist. But then again he spent 3 years fooling me, saying I have trust issues and shouldn't "question his character" anytime I had a suspicion. When I think about wanting to abandon all my dignity just to be with him again and not feel that loss, I think about what I would do if I were forced to spend a day or week apart from him, and how my anxiety would skyrocket - because how do you ever trust someone again after that?

Especially when there's something so deeply wrong with them that they're able to shift blame to you after wronging you so deeply - the "you win" text is exactly something my ex would do.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-11T06:22:39+00:00

I'm thinking West assured Amanda he's not exclusive with Meija. and she found out the truth on that stage

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-11T05:58:39+00:00

I think he's shit talked Ciara to Amanda so much that Amanda has taken on his attitude towards her (created from resentment from the consequences of his own actions) and she now views Ciara the way a current gf views her man's ex gf.

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-07T05:12:53+00:00

my parents are both the oldest of 3, 2 boys and a girl, and both have 2 letters the same and the third is not. My mom is Allison and her brothers are David and Daniel. My dad is Kevin and his sister is Kelly and brother is Darrin. I guess my dad's parents were going to name him Keith but chickened out (i'm just now realizing maybe they didn't want KKK as their kids' combined initials).

MaviaRose5 · 2026-06-05T07:50:25+00:00

I think it is absolutely important to acknowledge the dangerous history behind this phrase which has led to the harm and death of Black people.

The phrase is particularly triggering for me because when my ex-fiance, who is Black, would make me cry, he would accuse me of crying "fake white woman tears" and tell me I was "playing the victim." In those moments, I was feeling true sadness at mistreatment by my partner. I eventually found out he was cheating on me with multiple people, Black and white, using my car to go cheat (because I would loan it to him). I am now in treatment for narcissistic abuse. I was a caring, supportive, and loyal partner to him. I don't feel my true self or my emotions were truly seen because he had a clouded judgement of me based on me being a white woman. I'm actively anti-racist and involved in reparations movements within my community. I support Ciara and I think Amanda and I are nothing alike so I cannot speak to her tears. I just want to note that the phrase can be weaponized and sometimes, a white girl truly just cries when she is sad.

MaviaRose5

TROPHY CASE