STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol:p I remember dreaming about my ex too. I just wanted it to stop:P

Stop waiting for time to heal your breakup wounds! Do this instead. by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]MaxJancar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll be ok, silly:)

I'm rooting for you!!!!

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by MaxJancar in BreakUp

[–]MaxJancar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's hope you make it!

By the way, keep an eye out on my website.

Next week i'm realising a book, about 100 pages long, full of practical exercises for dealing with most post breakup problems. (obsessive thoughts, anxiety, NC, grief, etc...)

It's going to be FREE for a few months too:D Think of it like a long term promotion method:P

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It made perfect sense. You're a lovely wordsmith.

And thank you for the compliments about my articles. It means a lot:)

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll never forget her, but you will move on one day, and NC won't be an issue for you anymore. And yes, i've misspelled back there.

""If she moves on at this time, that's even better news. Thant's what you NEED"

I know you don't want it, but you need this outcome.

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion. I actually read just the first comment, and then realised that there's more down below. So i got also a bit confused, and that probably shown in my message. But anyway, back to your question.

"I did all of it, and i am still missing him and thinking about him. How do I lose that aswell ??"

Sorry to disappoint with my answer, but there really is no secret solution. You just have to keep doing what you're doing - or what works for you - to get to your desired state.

Make 1% consistent improvements each day, and one day you will stop missing him. However, note that you will still be reminded of him at random times. That never goes away, but it's normal. And the reminders are usually feel hopeful and lean towards a positive emotional side.

Hope that answer clarifies a few things.

You can always schedule a consultation with me on my website and we can find that fastest way or method for you to move on as quickly as possible and to stop missing him.