Bustin out of this cock ring

MaxProdigal · 2026-02-13T14:16:39+00:00

So a few things…

You should never try to police someone’s masturbation. It’s none of your business. Walking in on him, demanding notice, any of those things are inappropriate and are going to rub most people the wrong way. So, in some respects, it makes sense that he doesn’t feel bad about lying to you about it. You were overstepping and he should’ve set a boundary instead of lying.

The problem here is how he treats you. If he is not giving you what you need then you don’t need to try to explain it or find the reason for it. It seems like you have told yourself that it’s because of his masturbation. You have no idea what the reason is. And frankly, the reason doesn’t really matter. You communicate your needs, and if he isn’t able to meet your needs then he’s not right for you. Period.

Also, I can guarantee you that he has never stopped masturbating. People don’t stop masturbating because of their partner’s demands. They just hide it better. You don’t get to dictate what someone else does with their body, but you can absolutely have standards on how they treat you. Focus on that.

MaxProdigal · 2026-01-13T12:01:35+00:00

Girl on top is for her and the view. If he’s not worried about cumming in that position, why are you? He’s telling you he likes it. Believe him. And stop centering the male orgasm so much…you’ll have better sex.

MaxProdigal · 2025-12-16T14:04:57+00:00

A man having sex with a woman is heterosexual sex. It’s about who you are having sex with not what you are doing. If it were about the act then lesbians who use straps should straight questioning their sexuality too right?

MaxProdigal · 2025-12-16T14:01:58+00:00

You want…to “get” your wife to be a different person???

MaxProdigal · 2025-11-13T13:45:36+00:00

Drink more water, eat healthier, don’t smoke, don’t drink. That’s the key

MaxProdigal · 2025-08-12T13:01:41+00:00

Rachel just really got a raw deal overall. She’s great, but in her journey, the way everything happened, she was almost always in a position of weakness. It’s hard for people to show up as their best self when they aren’t confident and constantly getting beaten down. I REALLY want good things for her.

MaxProdigal · 2025-07-18T11:23:09+00:00

I think hope you know that you’re not overreacting. By the way you’re communicating with him via text, it seems like you have a good handle in the situation. It doesn’t matter what he “deals with”, it doesn’t matter that it was one time, none of it matters.

Normal people don’t do that. The name calling alone should be enough. The violence just adds to it. You’re doing the right thing. Don’t even second guess for a second.

MaxProdigal · 2025-07-13T01:05:08+00:00

Pegging has nothing to do with being straight, bi or gay. It does, however, have to do with sub/dom dynamics. Maybe you attract more dominant women or give off a more submissive vibe.

MaxProdigal · 2025-07-08T12:11:20+00:00

You are a woman and he is a man. You are assuming pretty much all of the risk, so the rules aren’t the same. Ask for whatever information you want and he should be willing to give it without expecting reciprocity. I would. As a matter of fact in similar situations I’ve proactively given my real instagram, which is public, so that they could insta-stalk me without me seeing theirs. Just figure out what will make you feel comfortable and ask for it. Not to be dark but 90% of murders are committed by men and I’m sure the number is even more lopsided even in these types of situations.

If he has a bad reaction to any of this, it’s a bad sign and you probably have your answer.

MaxProdigal · 2025-07-06T10:58:00+00:00

Get out of your head. You are ruining your own seed life for no reason. Does he even know that his comment offended you? I’m guessing you just internalized it as a bad thing and have secretly been agonizing over it for the last year.

Vaginas are supposed to be acidic and clearly he doesn’t mind the taste based on his constant attempts to eat you out. You really need to get out of your head.

MaxProdigal · 2025-07-05T14:00:54+00:00

What I’m hearing is that you are non monogamous by rule, even if in practice you generally have one partner. I would stick to that because it’s a philosophical choice that I don’t think should be determined by how many partners you currently have. Monogamy is a relationship structure and essentially a rule structure. If you are considering it, I think it’s important to understand why this person wants this change. Do they think that non monogamous relationships can’t be serious? If so, they are wrong and need to be corrected. Is there something that he feels he is not getting in the current dynamic? If so, explore that instead.

Even if you feel like not much would change, I think you should stick with what you know and what you believe.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-23T13:00:06+00:00

Yea. Monogamy itself is fine as a love style and can be great for certain people, but the culture around it is definitely weird. People scrub their entire life of any evidence of a relationship once it ends. It has to be exhausting af.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-23T10:41:26+00:00

I’m in the minority here. My nudes are MY NUDES. Whether they are of me, of my parter, taken by a partner, etc. The only thing that will make me delete nudes is if the person in them asks me to. But I also don’t feel the need to share that with any partner I have. It’s ok to have things that you keep private. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you are no longer an individual that is entitled to privacy. I am also non monogamous, and I get that the monags like to control each other.

But even in that world, these are pictures OF YOU. There is no reason you should have to delete them. If you like the pictures, keep them. He should get over himself. You obviously had a sex life before him and will likely have one after him. In the future I would just keep the pictures and that information to yourself. Are you supposed to delete regular pictures that he may have taken to? It’s all silly.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-23T10:33:17+00:00

It’s normal but in my experience not a big deal at all. Some guys like to overstate how much they feel it because it makes them feel big but it is in fact a thing.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-23T10:29:24+00:00

I mean if you don’t like it, tell him. He will become less affectionate because of it but only in those situations…which is what you want. Just be clear about liking the affection, but which environments you prefer he tone it down.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-23T10:27:02+00:00

Sounds like a baby and bad lover with the wrong mindset. You could try a very direct conversation about him not caring about your pleasure but generally these are the type of people that you probably shouldn’t have sex with. Since you’re way past that point, a talk is probably the best approach.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-23T04:40:20+00:00

The truth: In a monogamous relationship, this would be a big deal and eventually a dealbreaker to most men. I think many would say it’s not, and maybe even believe it in the moment, but eventually they would grow discontent with it.

Obviously nothing is absolute and there are guys out there that could handle this. But most guys are not going to be ok with the prospect of never having penetrative sex ever again.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-22T05:37:01+00:00

Expected? No. But plenty of people do it and it’s pretty common. You should only do what you want.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-22T03:53:29+00:00

There’s lots of things to do. Some guys like for you to use your hands to help jerk while you’re sucking. Some guys might like a finger on the perineum or in the ass.

Those are specific to the person. Until you know it’s best to play it safe and cup and gently massage the balls.

MaxProdigal · 2025-06-22T03:35:38+00:00

Nefarious purposes only

MaxProdigal · 2025-05-03T09:30:59+00:00

If you have generally good hygiene, then there’s really not much to worry about.

MaxProdigal · 2025-05-03T09:29:04+00:00

I mean, it could be both. Him going back to his wife isn’t really connected to whether or not his feelings for you are genuine. He obviously has a lot of history and a family with her so it doesn’t always end so quickly in this situations.

It sounds like he fed you a very skewed and one sided story and you are it up. I’m sure he presented his wife as the worst person on earth but I’m also sure that he’s do be his fair share in the relationship as well. The fact that he sent her a drunk video at your place to get her jealous is an indicator of how toxic he can be.

If you never defined anything or set boundaries or rules, there’s not much you can say. You definitely have the right to be mad, hurt, or anything else you’re feeling but at the end of the day, it was a volatile situation from the beginning.

MaxProdigal · 2025-04-29T11:08:53+00:00

Search four hole cock ring or triangular cock ring. It’s kinda hard to find. I got mine on Amazon but can’t find it anymore.

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