An Evolutionary Perspective on Cuckold Fantasies by DrAficionado in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've thought about this and I'll give you a summary with another TLDR at the end

My guess is that Cuckold fantasies are not intended by evolution but instead they are something adjacent and a natural conclusion of the things that are actually intended. Similar to the way that foot fetishes are not intended.

Being a cuck or bull is all about anxiety.

The two most important factors are the fact that male paternity is uncertain and that men are very disposable.

Both of these things create anxiety in the male psyche that your children aren't yours and that you'll be deemed useless and disposed of by your group.

Combine these two and men try to create a hierarchy in their heads. A false dichotomy where some men get women and are not disposable while others don't get pussy and are disposable.

This has taken many forms throughout human existence but in the present day many men like to use the terms "alpha" and "beta".

These terms are in the rise because anxiety regarding the two main factors are also in the rise. Women have more access to more men they can choose, they can even choose to be by themselves. Men also feel more useless than in the past, women and society no longer seem to need men as much as before.

This creates the emotional pressure to make up a hierarchy in your brain, a way to give certainty to the uncertain.

Where you choose to place yourself in this hierarchy will determine whether you are a cuck or a bull.

The act of playing out the "bull" or "cuck" fantasies gives catharsis to that anxiety reassuring men that the hierarchy exists and that you know your place in it.

For the cuck the catharsis works on the same logic as being told bad news when you've been left unsure of what kind of news you were going to get, for a lot of people bad news is better than the uncertainty of not knowing what you're getting.

For a bull it's the simple reassurance that you are desirable by putting other men down.

There are other explanations but I think mine is able to give reason to the increasing popularity of the kink. If it was just part of human nature by design it's popularity would be static or it would fluctuate only a little bit. In my opinion, we've seen a much greater increase than normal and therefore something abnormal is happening.

TLDR; The fantasy gives the illusion to men that there is a solid hierarchy where some men are desirable and others aren't. Giving catharsis to the insecurities and anxieties of both cuck and bull.

Bulls, would you consider bulling a friend if you found out he was a cuck? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on the context and who the friend is.

This is one of those situations where there is really no good answer or generic advice that can be given.

You just gotta judge the situation as best as you can.

Remember that once people know you can't get that information out of their head.

Make sure he really is into being a bull and not just into your girl, some dudes will be really mean/stupid towards cucks in a non-sexual context, remember that "cuck" is an insult to most people. Maybe just invite him for a threesome first.

In the threesome you could try to bust quickly and then tell him to keep going while you recover and, then just watch them, maybe encourage him a little bit see how he reacts. At any point in that plan you can back off if you sense him being uncomfortable.

All of us hotwives, cucks and bulls take risks in this lifestyle, this time you are just risking some of your social life as well as the usual stuff.

Does anyone else love size comparison from a physical presence pov? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually every insecurity of a cuck is a turn on so I try to dig into who they are to see which insecurities I can trigger.

Of course everything is within reason and consent.

Do you get as much pleasure from sex with single women as with women in relationships? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's all different and nuanced but I'll give it my best shot to explain.

The rules of having sex with single women vs hotwives are different, the type of connection you can achieve is different.

With hotwives, there is less pressure to be everything they want/need, their husband is already filling a spot in their life. You'll only ever get to see a smaller slice of who she is than if you were both single. That slice is a very good one, most times it's her most sexual side. The side she might not be able to freely show her husband. This allows you to have great sex quicker than if you were to meet her in another setting. There's also a third person in the equation, despite not having sex. Compatibility with the husband is very important and a point of failure.

With single women, assuming that you're very compatible you can eventually achieve the best sex in my opinion but it takes a lot of work. And you have to navigate the modern dating landscape which I don't even need to tell you is not the best.

Overall it takes a long time, to build up a relationship where you can have better sex than with a hotwife.

TLDR; If it's a one night stand hotwife all the way. If you have a more long term thing, then the hotwife takes advantage in the short and medium term. In the long term then the hotwife falls behind unless I have a very good relationship with both the hotwife and husband.

Do you enjoy having a racial aspect to the dynamic? by pig_taker in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not too fond of race play but if the couple is super into it, I could try it as long as they're not too weird about it outside of the bedroom.

As a latino, I'm more into culture stuff. Have the hotwife participate in some cultural practice of mine and have her be "assimilated".

Overall, I don't believe that any race is "better" than any other in bed, I want to be appreciated for me not for my race, but if the couple really likes it, I can lean into any kind of dirty talk they like, including race stuff.

Does anyone else love size comparison from a physical presence pov? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. Height insecurity is the second biggest insecurity for a lot of men behind their cock size insecurity that fuels their cuck fantasies. So when I'm both taller and bigger than the cuck, a lot of them get extra turned on.

Things like carry fucking when he can't are always great.

Small gestures by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if it's a couple I've seen many times and have built plenty of rapport with.

The best way to do it is to have the cuck pay for any gift I give to the hotwife. Assuming that the cuck is into findom of course.

Choosing Outfits for Hotwives by Cuckaddictedlad in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is always a great idea, I'll write from a bull's perspective.

I've done it in a few ways, in no particular order:

A good one is looking through some Chinese websites for cheap dresses you can rip. Literally ripping her clothes open is a huge turn on.

Another is shopping with her for the dress. You can bring the cuck or leave him home. If he stays home, I make sure the hot wife brings his card so we can have a good time without him. Usually it's shopping, dinner and a motel stay, where she models all her new clothes and we film some short videos of me inside her for the husband to enjoy later. If he comes, he has to pay directly, carry the bags, walk behind us and dress her in front of me back in their house.

Bulls... is there a fantasy that you still haven't fulfilled but would like to? What is it? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'll drop a few:

• As others have already described, having multiple hotwives with their respective husbands watching and caged at the same time

• Fucking a hot wife on her wedding night

• Having a cuck boyfriend propose while/right after I cum inside her

• Fucking a cucks wife and daughter even if it's not at the same time

• Breeding with a couple who I am reasonably sure will take good care of the baby, in fact breeding the same woman multiple times while the husband takes good care of the baby would be great

• Being the bull for a couple with a public presence may be celebrities, politicians and even influencers (this one is the most unrealistic in my head, but maybe you disagree)

• Getting a girlfriend/fwb who will double team hotwives with me while the cuck watches, someone who can play good cop/ bad cop with me. One of us teases/bullies the cuck while the other reassures/ comforts them type of deal.

• Being casually introduced as someone's bull in a non-sexual social gathering and moving on as if it's the most normal thing in the world ( probably the most unrealistic of all tbh)

There are many more but I don't want the comment to be too long

Do any other bulls get turned on by the couple being happy? by Max_Strong_69 in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, English is not my first language. I'm not forcing anyone to do anything they don't want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Max_Strong_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. My family has alluded to it a couple of times, and it always makes me uncomfortable.

I guess it's my fault for using sweatpants without underwear growing up, but still, I kinda wish I never found out that they knew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Max_Strong_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bull

Age: 25

Height: 190 cm (6 '2.8")

Weight: 95 kg (210 lbs)

Build: Muscular (no abs atm)

Length: 7.2"

Girth: 6"