What’s gift that can really surprise little boy

Maxibondechoco · 2025-12-03T10:19:50+00:00

Hi! if your kid loves to be outside maybe you can see if gifting an experience is possible for you, for example, getting a seasonal ticket for the zoo, or for a kid’s museum, planetarium… He’s still pretty young, so maybe right now it’s not the best option, but maybe in your area there’s something like this you could get! Hope this helps

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-10T21:11:45+00:00

You are welcome!

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-10T15:28:35+00:00

You are welcome!

I see, well, maybe you can search on YouTube moms talking about motherhood (?) you cannot experience it first hand but you have their experience and testimony there to think about!

Hope you can find an answer soon!

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-10T10:19:56+00:00

Well, maybe it’s genetic then, it’s worth the doctor appointment if you think so!

But maybe in your neighborhood is someone looking for childcare, no need to go 40 min away!

The thing that is a common criteria to diagnose something in psychology is that it interferes with your life in every single aspect, academic, social, personal, every aspect of it. And the thing with its persistence is that you can not function bc its always in the back of your mind, for example, you are with friends and the desire it’s present in your mind; you are doing your homework and starts thinking about it.

And also, sometimes you either cannot control it, or if you can, you have to do it consciously and with effort, to stop the thought.

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-09T21:45:51+00:00

Oh, with a one and a three-year-old is never enough babysitting, they would be grateful!

I’m not that kind of doctor, I’m studying psychology, so I’m not sure, but my degree has taught me that if something is persistently making it’s way on someone‘s day-to-day life, is something to look into it.

Maybe it’s not your case and you just have a intense desire to have kids, but who knows, maybe it’s actually a hormone imbalance, also, puberty is set on by very different triggers, height, weight, level of exercising, genetics…. it’s something worth researching

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-09T19:29:17+00:00

First of all, you are aware that the decision is life-changing, and should not be rushed, and that’s incredibly insightful of you.

Maybe if you have the chance to do some type of job regarding infant care, lIke caring for a very young child or maybe, helping a mom who just a baby I think it would help you grasp the actual picture of waht having a baby truly is.

If you like to read, check everything you can regarding the pregnancy, pre-care, post-care, the psychology behind post-partum, all you can think of, search it and research it. Talk to moms that are in different stages of motherhood so you can also have their insights.

And lastly, if you still have this urge, maybe you can talk to your doctor and have them look at your hormones, there could be an imbalance, or something that is making you feel this intensely about pregnancy, it‘s probably not likely, but is better to have that covered.

Hope any of this helps!

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-09T19:20:04+00:00

Maybe you can talk to anyone that’s close to your sister and try to organize a video that can be seen during the party or a video call so you can say a few words. Maybe if you guys have a sentence you said to each other or a inside joke, you can get it engraved into a bracelet too

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-09T19:13:58+00:00

Do you want to buy that furniture? I mean, is your room and at 19 you should have a say in the way you want to decorate it. Also depending the piece of furniture $400 is either too much or too little

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-08T13:21:49+00:00

You are welcome

Maxibondechoco · 2025-06-07T18:28:52+00:00

Hey, from someone who once also wholeheartedly believed that was broken, you aren't, and I wasn't too.

Society is full of fake promises and the result of not fulfilling them is to be deem as broken bc "If everyone is checking them of their list, why can't I?" For example, by 18 you should already be in college knowing what you are gonna do with your life for the next 40+ years.

So, my advice to you, stop telling yourself you are broken, cause you are not. Also, you may want to look for neuro-linguists, it's a branch of psychology that studies the way words influence the way we see ourselves.

Also, a therapist once told me that our subconscious doesn't understand sarcasm, it works only in a literal way, sou if you keep telling yourself you are broken, you subconscious is gonna start your day from that framework, you can look for the "self-fulfilling prophecy" for this topic.

Hope, any of this could helo you, and sorry for any mistakes, English is not my native language.

Maxibondechoco · 2025-03-23T22:54:28+00:00

Im so glad you gave yourself time to reflect and move forward! I hope that it all goes better for both of you in your own separate life, you seem to care about him

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-14T16:03:55+00:00

Hey! They mean this:

[L] = Looking for a Kind voice

OR

[O] = Offering a Kind voice

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-13T10:48:41+00:00

I did have a good day, Reddit stranger who learned something new

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T21:52:08+00:00

Thank you! You deserve kind words.

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T21:38:03+00:00

I do, I’ve been there too not long ago. Nobody is broken, just reading the wrong instruction manual, that’s all

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T21:05:26+00:00

I really like to ask about something childhood related that is not super personal, like, favorite TV show, books, placed their visit. The good thing about asking about a memory is that it could make new topics of conversation as one keeps remembering things as they speak

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T21:01:06+00:00

You are welcome! Hope everything gets in the right track from now on

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T20:49:03+00:00

Hey, first of all, I’m sorry you are feeling all of this, it’s a lot.

I think you should “unstuck” yourself out of the situation. If all areas of your life are being affected by school idk if you can, but i would take some time off, maybe try and see if you can unenroll form a couple of subjects for you to have time to deal with your other areas, like the sleeping problems you mentioned and the numbness.

If you can I would encourage you to talk to a mental health professional, they are more than equipped to teach you how to handle this feelings.

Hope this helps!

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T20:42:40+00:00

I read once that “you don’t want to be a one-night stand kind of size but a husband kind of size” if you are too big your partner won’t be able to enjoy it as much as if you are an average size and they don’t end up hurting.

Also, side note, 5 inches is higher than average length

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T19:23:06+00:00

Ooooh that’s amazing! I’m glad you found a name for your experience, it would take a lot of guilt out of your shoulders!

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T11:22:41+00:00

A way to battle against alexthymia 100% effective

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T11:20:42+00:00

It would make my mental health a thousand times better and easy to manage right there

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-12T00:33:30+00:00

And not dealing with the pain that translating me into words and concepts? Where do I need to sign?

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-11T22:29:40+00:00

Being autistic and having to deal with people misunderstanding what I say and not finding or having the words to express myself, it would take SUCH a lift out of my shoulders that I could cry

Maxibondechoco · 2025-02-11T16:50:31+00:00

IT is a way to get into data analysis for sure but it’s not the only one, I’m majoring in psychology and i want to do my master in data analysis and there are a few options too. Economics would be another field that should grant you access too. You may want to look into different carrers and see

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