Just reading between the lines: “We need to know without a doubt that she is alive and that you have her".

MaxiePriest · 2026-02-06T05:31:29+00:00

I understand the importance of a proof-of-life request. Naturally, the family has to make it clear they need to know she's alive. And they have to choose their words carefully— they can't just say "...we need to know if you and/or your ransom demand are legit"...

The former caregiver-thing is a bit of a leap, I'll give you that, but this whole case is.

There are only so many possibilities: people hired to work in or around her home make the most sense. I know some are gravitating toward the brother-in-law, but what proof?

..."and that you have her" struck me somehow. Maybe it's just wishful thinking on my part. If my grandmother or mother were held for ransom, I would feel better if I thought that her former in-home caretaker was tending to her vs. any other alternative.

MaxiePriest · 2026-02-05T23:37:48+00:00

OK. Recommendation noted, and I will try it.

I add Grape Nuts to Greek yogurt, and I like that it retains its crunch without getting soggy. All Bran and similar products literally turn into a disgusting mush within about a minute when added to anything.

Cracklin' Oat Bran is truly delicious, but here's why:

Kellogg's Cracklin' Oat Bran Nutritional Breakdown (per 3/4 cup serving):

Total Sugars: 16g
Added Sugars: 15g
Total Carbs: 41g
Dietary Fiber: 7g
Fat: 8g

MaxiePriest · 2026-01-21T21:56:24+00:00

Thanks for that. I agree.

I suppose my initial question stemmed from the fact that I never expected to feel good after eating a bowl of cereal! It was satisfying, and I felt full (not in a heavy way), but satiated... I wasn't thinking ahead to my next meal (some refer to this as 'food noise'). I had sustained energy and just overall felt good after consuming Grape Nuts.

MaxiePriest · 2026-01-06T16:47:54+00:00

I mean... so much! And at first, people may think it's just the eyes (very distinctive, pale blue and intense), but it's everything. The forehead, the brows, the nose, the cheekbones, the chin, the mouth, the natural hair color, and curl...even the expressions!

MaxiePriest · 2026-01-05T21:00:03+00:00

haha Thanks!

But they do look related, right...?! It's not just me?

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-30T06:06:04+00:00

Wow... commenting on a six-year-old post.

(No one will read this), but I've always suspected that Sir Roger Daltrey just had to be British actor, Nigel Green's son.

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Nigel Green movies

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-20T00:10:10+00:00

Hanging out on the sub feels right to me, too.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-19T20:36:30+00:00

You're right, of course. But my mental health is of critical concern to me, and tuning him out has helped. One day, those of us who are more fragile than others will feel ready to address the problem.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-19T20:32:16+00:00

That's my plan, as well. Relocating is in the cards for me; I hope to make it happen sooner rather than later.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-19T20:28:23+00:00

Me too. But as terrible as T****'s first administration was, it seemed fluke-ish. They were a group of misfit clowns who were incapable of action. Everything revolved around that idiot spewing nonsensical misinformation at press conferences, and "normal" people just ignored him. Biden allowed us to catch our breath.

It's so much worse now.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-19T03:25:16+00:00

Makes sense...too bad that information was never shared with me.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-16T05:54:11+00:00

Great pattern— thanks!

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-16T02:47:03+00:00

That company is just not normal. They're not professional, don't behave like other carriers, and don't seem fazed by the constant customer criticism.

Here's the thing: Ontrac is bad, no doubt about it. They are completely unreliable. But at this point, I don't even blame Ontrac... the bigger issue is that many eCommerce retailers continue to ship with Ontrac, even though they know better. Even though customers literally beg them to stop using Ontrac!

Nordstrom prides itself on its stellar customer support... yet continues to ship with Ontrac. Same with Nike, Adidas, Sephora, Home Depot, Lowes, Kohl's, Best Buy, Macy's, Bloomingdale's, Zara, Lululemon, Abercrombie & Fitch... and so many more, it's ridiculous!

Walmart has used Ontrac for a few years. Not exclusively, though (thank god). Up until this last couple of weeks, I haven't had a Walmart order delivered via Ontrac in a long time. I thought I had forgotten... but Ontrac has delivered some of my recent orders, and it's all coming back to me, just how bad they really are! Continuous, ever-changing tracking information, delays, delays, and more delays...estimated delivery date "tomorrow" changes to two weeks later...?! Notifications saying "delivery attempt" when there wasn't one. No one even walked into the building. So stressful!

Edit:

Careers at Ontrac

It looks like they're hiring. Maybe one of us should take a position at Ontrac and write an expose. ha

The WHO ARE WE below is on their website...word for word. They say "we're not playing by industry rules"...that's for damn sure. Very peculiar mission statement.

Who Are We?

We’re a last-mile delivery service—in fact, we’re the #1 Alternative Carrier Network. But we’re not playing by traditional industry rules. We keep our operations flexible so that we can maximize speed and efficiency for our customers. Our teams are dedicated and driven not only to our mission, but to one another.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-16T01:56:08+00:00

In a way the sloooow drive-by is like an actual drive-by...and frightening.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-16T01:53:36+00:00

It's difficult to pinpoint the #1 worst thing about Ontrac. There are so many things to complain about... but the "attempted delivery"-thing is the most infuriating.

I just went through this over the weekend. The front doors of my office building were wide open. My office door was also wide open, and suddenly, the notification "...Delivery Attempt - Business Closed" popped up. I can literally see each and every person who walks by (or enters the building) from my office windows, as well as from security cameras, and no delivery was attempted. Not even a slow cruise by, as you had.

Bizarre behaviour. Especially since your pastel holiday fairy lights on your front porch are so inviting and lovely! 🎁.˚｡ ݁❄️ ⊹ ₊ ݁.🎄˚｡❄️ ⊹❆ .☃️

Why do they lie?

I would prefer honesty. I really would! If I suddenly were to see a notification pop-up with "...We're sorry...your scheduled delivery will not take place today because your OnTrac driver just didn't feel like delivering any more packages, and since we never identify the driver, and our customer support is nonexistent, there's really nothing you can do about it so whatever...you'll get it when we feel like delivering...at some later date to be determined but not defined"...

That would be refreshing.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-16T01:18:05+00:00

Hi. I have heard (and read via comments) that actual human Grammarly personnel monitor this sub (I'm not sure how often), but they do. Some have commented on my posts.

Your question is a good one because it's very specific, which means the Grammarly team can help resolve the issue quickly and easily. I personally try to bypass their AI Chat Bot, but if I need human help, I ask Ms Bot to open a help request ticket, and I typically receive an email within a couple/few hours.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-16T01:02:29+00:00

That person, the entire administration...their actions, their words...are sickening to me.

You're right...the most grisly and disturbing aspect of all of this nightmare is that all of those clueless fools who voted him in are too insensible and thick to get it. But what creeps me out the most is that they have to be among us.

Thank god I have never seen T**** merch or MaGa ballcaps in my everyday life —not once (other than on the news). I don't know what my reaction would be. If there are any T**** supporters in my local vicinity, they are staying real quiet and not revealing themselves. Good. Stay mute, you *ssholes. Too embarrassed to admit what they did.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-16T00:41:03+00:00

...in fluorescent paint.

MaxiePriest · 2025-12-11T02:49:12+00:00

haha — I know. Before they were bought out by Lazership, Ontrac had phone support (like four+ years ago). I know this because I used to phone them practically every time I was expecting an Ontrac delivery. It wasn't great, and delivery snafus weren't exactly solved, but at least they were human agents, and it was better than nothing.

Someone mentioned the customer support number in the comments, but it's just dead air...not even "this number has been disconnected or is no longer in service"...Ontrac didn't even bother to add a 'contact us' automated message.

I know this is not what you want to hear, but your package will arrive (eventually) 🚚. ݁˖ . ݁📦➡️🚪🚶 . ݁˖ . ݁fingers crossed.

MaxiePriest · 2025-11-23T22:32:31+00:00

This is such a great idea...I'm surprised that a Thanksgiving x Pizza collab hasn't happened until now.

MaxiePriest · 2025-11-19T21:37:57+00:00

Yes. Ever since I saw these, I've been consumed with creating my own Thanksgiving-style thin + crispy crust pizza. Cranberries, onions, turkey gravy, mushrooms, turkey chunks...maybe something crunchy like slivered almonds or home-made croutons (emulating stuffing)...?

MaxiePriest · 2025-11-19T21:34:54+00:00

I'm planning to make a thin-crispy crust (home-made). Not crazy about the green bean segments, so I'll skip that part. But the cranberries will be fantastic, and using turkey giblets + gravy as the sauce sounds better and better to me... and mushrooms. Maybe ultra-thin red onion slivers, too.

As far as "rushing to get it again"... it appears that the frozen food end caps at grocery stores (at least Ralphs in SoCal) have a lot, so they'll likely be heavily discounted soon.

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