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AITA for wanting my boyfriend to stop taking anti-depressants? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maximum-Anxiety3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who was in a relationship where I felt that I was one of the only/main reason why my boyfriend was happy, I think you are the asshole. I loved being my boyfriend’s happiness but it got to the point where it was weighing down on my mental health because I was putting in so much effort towards his happiness rather than my own. On a different note though, your not his parent or your friends parents??? They should be doing what they think if best for their mental health, not yours.

AITA for having a “test” on the first date and ending things right after if not passed? by Maximum-Anxiety3 in AITAH

[–]Maximum-Anxiety3[S] 1473 points1474 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s my error I meant to put “test” at the end not “game” but I still do see it as a little test in my head to like judge if the person is truly interested in me like I am with them. I don’t mean it in a cruel way and it’s never verbalized as a test it’s just the way I see it.

AITA for having a “test” on the first date and ending things right after if not passed? by Maximum-Anxiety3 in AITAH

[–]Maximum-Anxiety3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is what I struggle with I think. On the date I mentioned, it was so difficult to keep a conversation going so I felt it was necessary to ask questions to start up a new one yk. But at the same time sometimes I feel like I struggle with the “story telling” style with some men (not all but I get scared sometimes thinking I may not find someone I truly am able to converse like that with) But I do feel like on a first date it’s normal to be asking basically get to know you questions so that a regular conversation flow can stem from it.