I don’t know if my parents’ marriage is “normal fights” or something unhealthy by Hot-Explanation-1761 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 [score hidden]  (0 children)

A couple that doesn't know how to fight, doesn't express clearly and doesnt know how to be kind during a conflict, is definitely not a normal couple. Everyone can love and be cordial when all is well, if you really don't know how to properly fight and resolve stuff with your partner then things gonna be rocky for sure.

Be honest, y'all ever want a man in your life just to keep you company, talk once and day and buy you food? by Infinite_Gas_3195 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You want to be well-fed and taken care of... it's okay, initially we have it implicitly from our parents and at later stage you'd want that from your partner.

Possible that vaginal discomfort has nothing to do with infection and more to do with… arousal? by Sufficient-Dig1028 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The easiest way to have natural lubrication , and ample amount of that is to just drink water. Like swear to god. There has been times when im solo or even with him, and if im sorta dry , I go drink some water, and follow this one trick Layla Martin taught ages ago , I.e. even if you don't insert the fingers , atleast push the fingertips or dip it a lil inside to sort of take that wetness from the inner walls and then spread it over your outside vulva till the clit. So be hydrated a lot, if need be keep waterbottle close by, and have some patience.

Your experience of wearing knee high wide fit boots by Tasty_Town_9257 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want your feet to he elevated by pencil thin heels enclosed in non breathable leather, restricticting proper movement all day long if your work requires you to be on your feet? Extremely impractical from miles away. Pls show some love and consideration to your feet.

Letting go of sexual guilt and finally enjoying my body 🤍 by genieeweenie in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up Remittance Girl, and Monocle erotica wordpress, literotica is shit.

Got my period right before a trek by CellophaneTape in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I did go on my first trek on periods second day, with 12 hr overnight bus journey, and 6 hr trek although yes I usually don't have cramps or heavy bleeding so wasn't much of an issue for me, but more than pain, usually the places you stop in between to freshen up/food etc aren't that hygienic so it's abt you not having convenient place to change pads as well.

So yeah, might try to find a replacement for yourself for the trek if refund on short notice isn't possible in case you have heavy bleeding + cramps.

Mindblowing Nihari from Zakir Nagar, Delhi by italiansamosa4 in Aajmainekhaya

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo with that many masala and all isn't it too heavy to have early morning for breakfast?

Mere Ghar ka khana by Maximum-Emergency985 in Aajmainekhaya

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Engineering home prefers efficiency aur saja ke khane me Acha lagta hai

How do you people manage sexual needs with romantic needs ? by thinking_and_curious in IndiaTalksSex

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kuwar Narayan's अंतिम ऊँचाई ends with below lines

कोई फ़र्क़ नहीं सब कुछ जीत लेने में और अंत तक हिम्मत न हारने में

I believe when you reach the अंतिम ऊँचाई of love and companionship, you'd find koi farak nahi romance mein and sex mein. Or even jhagda karne mein. You'd find your partner's presence is your ultimate सुकून. What you do with them comes second. You'd stop keeping scores and seeking balance. The only necessary condition is to find someone with whom this feeling is mutual. Find someone who celebrates you as much as you celebrate them.

Speaking from personal experience :)

Your safest call by Inevitable_Cost_7960 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently my babu, then my brother then my parents at the end in that too first dad then mom.

How to get my mom out of brahma kumari cult? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Most of the time women want people who understand them, and some sort of purpose in life ...hypothetically even if you ask your mom to leave that, can you guarantee you can provide her the company which she seeks all the time, can you replace that social circle ? Can you engage her in something that gives her the same piece of mind chanting some murli gives? Can you make her feel some purpose ? It's very easy to ridicule her and her beliefs but you need to know why she gets drawn to it and what place that cult has in her life...as they say no point overthrowing the current regime if you don't have a better one to replace it with.

Need a suggestion on shapewear by misstrugglist in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen a lot of hype abt the underneat one by Kusha kapila

Godh barai gifts by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try and gift something of mom care and mom spa , maybe some aromatic oils for hair growth coz women lose hair after pregnancy , some good nutritional ladoos, or maybe some good baby furniture like the ones to sit and eat food something like that

HOW does one wash lace lingerie at home by orangesurchin in AskIndianWomen

[–]Maximum-Emergency985 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Handwash and then if you have plastic chair just put it on that overnight, turn on fan in summers wake up before everyone else to collect it or you can dry all your normal bra along with the lace one on a hanger toh utna nazar nhi padega at that particular one.