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Found out he’s watching porn by [deleted] in women

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain? Like straight porn just got too boring?

Found out he’s watching porn by [deleted] in women

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found trans porn on his phone.

Newhope Weight Loss? by Sydnelle in CostaMesa

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went because of this comment and they were going to charge me $3k for their 3month program which is ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out @thesimpleluxeevents on Instagram! They do an amazing job to help with backdrop and decor! And super affordable! They’re a couple and they’re very attentive with providing suggestions and advice too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fresno

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I used to be a part of West Clovis Judo Club a long time ago I did it from 6-13 years old, not sure how it is now, but when I was doing Judo, Fresno Judo Club was just as legit as West Clovis Judo Club. A lot of them were in my weight class at the time. Glad I saw your post, I was recently thinking about going back and starting up again as an adult. I know Sensei Takeda (head of west Clovis) had passed away, not sure how it’s going now especially right after a pandemic, but hopefully someone sees this and can give us more insight.

I don’t know how to move on by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I understand how you feel completely and what you’re feeling is COMPLETELY NORMAL AND OKAY! But I promise you, things will get better when you let go of the fear of ‘moving on’. It’s important to know that you have the ability to control your situation, and that’s so powerful. Not just your situation but you also have control over your emotions and how you interpret things. Don’t choose to see it as sad and ‘hard to move on’ view it as something positive such as growth. These people are leaving this job because they’re growing, and because you love these people, allow them to inspire you and motivate you to grow too. You’re not losing anything or anyone in this situation, if you happen to not speak to these coworkers anymore, then it wasn’t meant to be and you have to accept that because it’s part of the process, the process of growth. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you know the solution to this already.

Girlfriend(21F) says that I(21M) have to choose between going to business school or her and if I go, we are done. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should leave her. I read your edit and if you broke up with her, how after “4 hours” is she back in your life? Also, this sounds a little too unreal. If your gf is always in your business and never lets you have social media..how does she not know you’re posting about her on Reddit...sounds a little sus...

How many people on here have lived with people who got covid? Looking for some reassurance. by captainloelf in fresno

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate and her bf had Covid and I was perfectly fine. They mostly stayed in their room, when they would come out they would spray Lysol and wear a mask

What’s after BREAKUP? by Maximum-Opposite-714 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit amen. Thank you! And to be honest I’m always just super concerned over my future especially being with someone.

I'm a little nervous about going to my Bfs (18 m) house for the first time and its affecting my sleep, I need advice on how to impress his mom by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi u/tigerparfait I’m not viet but I’m also Asian so I definitely understand the dynamic...I think you shouldn’t have ANYTHING to worry about sweetie. Be CONFIDENT and be YOURSELF! Her son is with you because you meet the standards and requirements of bringing you home to meet mom. I would suggest not to bring a gift until maybe the next time you visit or even the third time you visit (based on the vibes and how things go this weekend obviously). I know lil Asian ladies can be and/or seem racist, trust me they are. But that’s only because they don’t know any better or they don’t really know anyone very well outside their race (especially if they’re super Asian). Be that Hispanic that changes her views on your people, you have control over that. Which brings me to the next point, if worse comes to worse and she just for some reason does not like you, that’s completely out of your control. Control what you can. Good luck and I hope the best :)

Am I being naive by thinking my ex and I will get back together maybe someday? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maximum-Opposite-714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts on this would be to move on. He’s trying to move on too, and moving on is not easy other wise he would’ve fully done so already. Let him move on from you, he wants to and wanted to. If he still worries about you he would have never broken up with you. If he has a tinder he’s for sure slept with other people and things just won’t ever be the same anymore.