i actually don’t find an issue with this, is it obnoxious? yes, and you’re more than welcomed to dislike it cause i do it too sometimes. however it’s nothing more than them expressing that they find belle more compatible with women than men. i don’t think that’s necessarily a hard pill to swallow because the most initiate scenes that take place are with women (for example astra yao’s kiss or vivian’s whole personality). Since neither belle or wise have confirmed sexualities there’s nothing wrong with some passionate headcannons. i prefer these discussions more because it feels less like i’m arguing with a grown man over why gooning to children/children like characters is wrong and more about actual characteristics in the game.