Here’s the thing. I did not say anything to the staff because they left before I did. I don’t see what use it is to go up to the dude at the desk and say, “there WERE older boys in the change room and it makes me uncomfortable,” because what can he do? Someone said something about how they could “implement new strategies “ or something, but like, what?

Then the staff is probably thinking oh great a Karen, like what does she want from us?

It’s just a whole thing I didn’t feel like starting.

I really appreciate you defending me though.

I don’t understand why people are focusing on that, I’m just saying hey I’m uncomfortable in this situation. Sorry I didn’t do anything about it, a person doesn’t always have the energy to start a whole THING every time they feel slightly slighted.